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u Oddly enough, I find myself denying it at first and trying to talk myself out of it. But I still catch myself glancing at her and wondering what it would be like to take her out on a date.
I do feel hints of jealousy if she's friends with other guys. I'll see them talking to her and think "oh, they'd better not be after her".
I'll usually plan to ask her out at some kind of church gathering. The last girl I asked out, I hung out near where she was so that I could catch her on her way out (the event was about over). She eventually did walk by, so I got her attention and started talking to her. She was with some friends, so every few seconds I would adjust which way I was facing so that I could "get her alone". I eventually got the opportunity and then asked her. I didn't really "plan". I just saw the chance and took it.
when i have crushes on a girl its instant, it doesn't "develop" the way girls experience.
-i think about her a lot, and daydream and wonder what it would be like to be with her, loving her, and being loved back by her, and sex and sexual things.
-no it doesn't freak me out, it just makes me anxious to have her.
-yes it does a little, especially since girls always ignore me.
-i wait for her to approach and ask me out because girls dont usually get rejected and its always up to the girl to choose the guy she wants and pursue, i dont pursue, because thats pointless just to be rejected.
It honestly depends on the guy's character. Not everyone thinks the same way. The only guaranteed thing is that they constantly think of her.
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I fucking hate it. If I get a crush on a girl i feel als these emotions and shit. Makes mee lose my focus cause I can't stop thinking about her. I know the girl won't like me back so I refuse to make any move and try to avoid contact with her. If she would make a move on me (which never happens ofcourse) I would probably ignore her or walk away from her.
For one shy guys don't pursue crushes. They have low self esteem and probably don't see themselves as having a chance with their crush. If they were friends at first chances are that friendship will drift the more the attraction builds.
When I start crushing on a girl, it takes some time for me to try to act. I wait around 1/2 weeks to plan a way to interact with her and when I talk to her, I try to stay normal (even though it's hard because I'm kinda shy). So yeah it freaks me out a little bit and it does make me jealous when I see her with other guys because she means everything to me. And yes I do, I'm actually thinking of what I'll say to her when we'll meet again at the beginning of the new school year.
I used to be very shy upon a point in time
1. Goose bumps, warm fuzz
2. Of course it does - you become sensitive towards her (sometimes to the point of her being irritated ha ha)
3. Freak out - not really
4. Yes at times but in my case it would be disappointment
5. Well if just be (irritatingly) persistent (never realised those days I may be traumatising her even if remotely)
-i get nervous sometimes or i want to spend more time with her, im usually nicer to her
-sometimes it does a lot, especialy if she is out of my legue
-not realy, but it differs with the guy
-im a very analytical person, so it would be romantic
it differs for everyone, this is just my opinion
Well you just notice that you Start liking her a lot and of course it bugs you if she's close with other dudes. For me usually she's with another guy before I get a chance... Or she friendzones me anyway, cause they are not expecting a guy to take so much time to be sure about his feelings.
It's different for all of us. a lot of us may need to be brought out of ourselves or our shyness. We will probably give you a look or two that you may notice, but may never speak to you unless there is an easy way in, such as being friends or being in the same place or something. But if you are not shy you should definitely ask us if we like you then speak more about going out.
I don't let her know that I like her. I dont think I would pursue her. Most women I had crushes on I didn't pursue because I was shy. Often I found out they were bicthes later. I often dogded a bullets through inaction.
think about her a lot. get super nervous when she's around cause i dont wanna embarase myself and ruin it. trip over my words when i try to say how are ya? and whats up? at the same time so i comes out "hey, whats are ya?"
Boners, warm fuzzy feeling in the heart and stomach, butterflies
Yes, my attitude changes. My actions (I think) stay the same though.
Yes, kinda.
No, we're allow to have friends. If she flirts with them, then yes.
It's different each time.
The butterflies😳my heart feels odd in a good way and beats faster, yea I get a little jelly😅 I slowly talk to her and I hope she talks more than I do😅 I get nervous
Losing concentration, thinking about unimportant things. Very unpleasant and unproductive. Stamp it out before it affects me too much.
Luckily I have not had one of those in 10 years or so.
what goes on in my head when i realize I'm developing a crush on a girl?
I think, "Sweet Jesus, thank you, I'm not gay after all!"
When I put shit to the side and just think about her
I basically think of everyone reason why I should not talk to her.
I just wish she would ask me out, but know it won't happen.
I slightly start to dislike any guy she goes with.
I play with myself and think of her for a while, then give up on the idea.
Well I used to do dumb shit.
Now I'm not shy.
So I'm lucky. I go talk to her.
I start trying to decide what position I'm gonna fuck her in first
Yes. Yes. Depends. I try to get to know her and her friends before trying anything.
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