If your making out pretty heavily would you rather your partner start taking your clothes off or their own?

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I'm used to being ignored by everybody so most of my relations are me taking the anitiative or us going in knowing we're going to have sex. If the latter our clothes fly as soon as we're in the door. If it's me I do everything and I would feel awkward if a girl took any annitiative or undressed me. I'm not used to any traditional relation like most.
If your making out pretty heavily would you rather your partner start taking your clothes off or their own?
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