Do you get undressed or changed in front of your partner?

[Anonymous]

Been with my boyfriend 5 years I've seen him we've both seen each other nude a few times when having sex. I get that privacy is important in a relationship and will always respect his right to have it. He is not over weight and doesn't have any insecurities about his body. But he still goes into the bathroom to change and never wants to shower with me and also if I need to use the bathroom while he's in there he won't let me go in there he gets angry with me. We don't live together as he hasn't asked me to move in yet. So I just feel like it's his way of keeping a bit of distance between us and not fully letting his guard down. So my question is am I reading too much into it or should I just let it go?

Let it go

He's keeping his distance for a reason

[coolbreeze]

I seen girls I dated naked and they seen me naked and we took showers together. I think he is not use to being naked around you. He might not be comfortable with his body. It might take time before he does.

[Asker]

We've been together for 5 years tho

[coolbreeze]

Oh ok I didn't know. It could be a space issue. Maybe he still wants some space and doesn't want to feel suffocated.

[boggboss]

How can u say he is not insecure if he won't allow u to see him naked outside of sex that's a contradiction

[Asker]

How? Like I said I think he's just doing it to keep distance between us

[boggboss]

He is clearly insecure if he is unable to show himself naked to you

[studDMuffF1n]

I prefer privacy, it's just better. Yeah if I'm taking a shower you wait. Im in agreement with the guy. Do you loose a deeper connection? Yeah, maybe but who cares.

[Seppelson]

Wow that's weird. I always shower with my girlfriend