Do you prefer to have a partner who’s sexier than you or do you enjoy being the sexier one?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

This thought came to my mind after talking with my friend and seeing how different we are, she likes being the sexier partner, I like going for someone sexier.

My friend looks like a super model and she dates someone I would never consider dating, she says she feels safer knowing that no other girls give him chances, so she’s one in a lifetime chance and experience for him, so she doesn’t have to worry about him ever betraying her.

As for me, as long as he has a personality that matches mine and he is skillful and ambitious and makes me feel like he admires me and treats me like a Goddess, I prefer taking on a hotter one. looking back at my last relationship , my ex was actually much sexier than me and I loved how he admired me and treated me like a Goddess. I also loved showing him off everywhere I went and knowing that someone who every girl wants - belonged to me. I might not be the sexiest girl out there but for some reason I am quite confident. I feel like why shouldn’t I enjoy the best of what the world has to offer?

So, we have different priorities while choosing a partner, I wonder which one is a better choice? You being the hot partner or finding someone even hotter?

[arodriguez664]

I can relate to your friend. Historically speaking I had gone for guys who were not the same or better on the attractiveness scale. Like your friend said it made me feel like they would never betray me because I was the best they were ever going to get. It was an ego thing. I worked on myself and really accepted the fact that I have some skills that no everyone has. After I accepted that I am not a horrible person, dating someone the same as me or better became easier. I still have bouts of jealousy or doubt, but learning how to manage those feelings helped. My boyfriend now is on par if not more attractive than myself. It's a challenge but worth it

[TooHot2Care]

Never really thought of it that way, maybe because this is the first time in my life where I’m getting all this attention from the ladies…..

I mean….. I prefer her to be sexier, I guess? Because mathematically : women are hotter than men, and I can prove it using Calculus and Physics.

So, a girl I’m into is objectively hotter than me.

[Dargil]

Back in the day when I was "pretty", I had a girlfriend who was as well. I didn't think of me that way. I just trued to look my best for her. But when we were out in public around other girls, she would get insanely jealous because she thought I was looking at them too long. It ultimately ended our relationship.

[TooHot2Care]

To quote Abraham Lincoln: “OOOOOOOH~ Now you FUCKED UP!!! Now you fucked up! Now you fucked up! You have fucked up now!!! Now you fucked up! Now you fucked up!! Now you fucked up!!! NOw you have fucked up!”

[Degenerate]

I go for people I'm into and hope they're into me?

Also, people are hotter the more I get to like them, and I know it's often the same on the other end, so it's not like things stay constant...

[NathanDavis]

sexier... absolutely

I am not into myself at all, lmao

[AdithyaR]

I don't really get to have that choice since I'm never gonna be the sexier partner.
So yeah my partner will be the sexier one

[clampfan101]

Well, my partner is the one I’m going to be checking out. Not myself. lol I just hope I look good enough for her.

[Anonymous]

As long as I can “get some” doesn’t matter if she looks better than me or not. As long as I can get in her pants all good.

[Tomisworthless]

I think most people are sexy looking but that’s because when you’re a 3 everyone’s hot 🥵

[rachel776]

it doesn't matter to me

[sheikalana]

I don't mind being the sexiest one LOL.

[AsaKyo]

Or we could both be equally sexy

[Nikki1989]

It makes no difference to me.

[MackBoy]

I have no idea, all looks the same to me

[Xtendable]

I consider my partner to have a greater sex appeal