Guys, if you date a woman with heavy flow during periods.. how would you want her to handle it?

[Anonymous]

With my ex I would always lie and say I wasent on my period when I was.. and then he would grab me between my legs and feel the pad himself from the outside of my pants and say "what's this then?". I'd just continue lying until he pulls my pants out back and checks which I would get anxious and he would just tell me its okay. And I would face myself away from him.. while he hugged me from behind.

I have to sleep with a towel. Sometimes with pad sometimes naked but towel is a must since i will NEVER wear a diaper.. im an adult

She sleeps with pad and towel under her next to you

She sleeps with pad (which will bleed through) but its fine you'll change sheets every day anyways..

She sleeps with adult disposable panties those few days next to you

She keeps her distance those few days and sleeps on the coach

She sleeps naked with towel under next to you

[Pyrofox]

I'd just be straight forward about it and ask well what would make it easiest for you to be comfortable and would you prefer me holding you or just leave you alone during this process. At least for me I live life mostly as a very simple plain life of keeping things on the straight and narrow. The only thing I'd make it clear is if the pain gets too much to handle I'd prefer that she uses some other way of communication other than speaking if the pain gets too much. Just to avoid the miscommunication. Wouldn't want my girlfriend or partner to have to deal with a even larger cocktail of chemicals like also having to be concerned they went too far. IE: Unintentionally like blew up with me XD. I live a mostly very comfy laid back life.

[Asker]

Okay thats really nice i guess. Then she could choose how she wants it

[Anonymous]

She sits on my face as I try to lick her clean?

[Asker]

🙈👀uhm u sure?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah

[Asker]

Hehe ok..:)

[RavVid]

I think there is good reason for secret women's business and this is one of them if not the primary reason.

[Asker]

So then she keeps her distance?

[RavVid]

There are a lot of cultural traditions with menstruation. Perhaps we should bring them back?

[Asker]

Yeah thats true. What do u think we should bring back?

[RavVid]

Perhaps the mystery or/and perhaps the waxing fertility afterwards. We may not actually want babies but the possibility is still quite something.

[Asker]

Whats the waxing fertility awards?

[RavVid]

Oh, waxing as in the waxing moon - getting fuller brighter. Not waxing as in hair removal :)

sometime after your period you are fertile and could conceive. I don't imagine you want babies right now but it is quite something you can.

[Asker]

Yeah I guess I could

[RavVid]

:) :)

[ImalwaysrightOK]

I would think wearing a pad in your panties and putting a towel beneath your bottom just in case would be good.

[Asker]

And you would be ok with her sleeping next to you?

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Obviously. There's nothing wrong with a girl who's menstruating. It's biological and normal.

[Asker]

Alright then thats nice of you