Do you think there are some men that don't deserve love?

[Anonymous]

[cjdiqnrncoqbeofna]

Its not so much that the guys don't deserve love, its just that girls don't deserve to be in love with such terrible men. and vice versa. some people put their partners through so much or treat them so awfully that it isn't worth giving them love anymore.

[Asker]

How would you describe the terrible men? And how would you describe good men? Thanks in advance

[cjdiqnrncoqbeofna]

ofc.
there are lots of different kinds of terrible guys. some of them don't care about their partners, objectify them, manipulate them, abuse them, consistently cheat, etc.
good guys are thoughtful and caring and know their partner and their partners boundaries.

[Asker]

Thanks again, currently doing some self reflection and working on my self esteem in general. But I have a lot of anxiety when it comes to women

[cjdiqnrncoqbeofna]

that's totally fair, we can be scary haha. but do your best and get out there, be authentic. most guys are great people and I'm sure you'll do just fine. self reflection is great though!

[Asker]

I don't think women are scary, it's just the cycle of thinking I have lol. I am fine around women as an acquaintance or friend, my issue is if I like them as more, I talk myself out of it because I don't see myself as the type of guy women love

[cjdiqnrncoqbeofna]

self esteem can be really limiting when it comes to relationships. when we let it hold us back, we don't find the person that could truly love us for us. don't go searching for the ideal man, just try to be yourself and amplify the good qualities

[Asker]

Well I know I can't be the ideal man lol, I know what I'm working with physically. But I also know that I'm not the worst guy in other areas

[virtualwasp]

depends on who they are and what they have done. some men deserve to be locked up others deserve to be loved.

[Asker]

If you could describe the type of guy that does deserve to be loved versus the ones that should be locked up

[Nikki1989]

It is not a question of deserving. It is just some people do little to earn it.

[Asker]

How does a guy earn it?