Guys, what can girls do to make you feel special in a relationship?

[Washington12]

What Are thoughtful things you wish girls would do more of? What makes you feel special?

[Lliam]

Nothing special. Her admiration is enough. Like being impressed when I carry heavy objects or do things that require muscle or skill. Or standing in front of me with our bodies touching and looking up into my eyes with something like adoration. Placing her little hand trustingly in mine when we walk, as if she feels safe and secure when she is with me. Leaning into me as we walk with our arms around each other. Asking me questions about things because she thinks I'm smart.

I just want to be admired and adored by her the same way I admire and adore her.

Of course, she can always do nice things for me like make a delicious dinner; look her best; tease me by wearing sexy clothes when we are home alone; come out of the shower, stand before me and drop her robe, then kneel to give me a BJ; come on top of me in bed and dangle her tits in my face; or little spoon and snuggle her butt against me with my arm around her when we cuddle before going to sleep. And, of course, be eager for sex.

She can also do thoughtful things like buying things that she knows I need or might like. I was talking about getting an external mouse for my new laptop a while back and my wife surprised me by getting one that was perfect. I like rocks, so one time she bought me an amethyst egg that she saw. Recently, she bought me a nice knitted scarf that she thought I might like. She knows I like airplanes, so a few years ago, she surprised me by paying for me to take a ride in a two-seat, open-cockpit, bi-wing airplane to do aerobatics. That was one of my bucket list dreams.

I'm not saying that it should be one sided. I'm eager to do the same things for her and make her feel special. I'm just answering the question "What can girls do to make you feel special in a relationship".

[Anonymous]

Guys aren't that difficult. Guys are typically happy with the status quo. In other words if things are working and you're happy we're happy. This is generally why guys don't talk too much we don't want anything to disrupt the status quo.

In short it's less about what you can do for us and more about what you DON'T do to us. Understand?

[AaronKrieger]

Similar things that make a girl feel special. Compliments, gifts, acts of service, remembering shit about each other, showing interest in the things we care about, etc.

[justcurious03xx]

random acts of affection! hug him from behind, give a compliment when he doesn't expect it, play with his hair, big spoon him when you're cuddling.

also unrelated but I'd love if a girl got me flowers as a surprise

[Shamalien]

Don’t worry so much about the extra stuff, get the basics right. Girls who try so hard to make a guy feel special open him up for so much hurt if they waver once he responds with powerful attraction equal to what he is perceiving from you

[FunkyMonkee]

Don't fuck every single dick that happens to bounce by!!

[kappasan]

Being worried about me (occasionally) + Sex (occasionally).

[slatyb]

Desire me.

[Luckycharms12]

I would hope so