Girls, how do you treat a guy special?

[Jakoesu]

Hi, I just want to know how do you make guys feel special when they make you special. I want to read what you have to say so I can understand that if someone special treats me right, I won't make the same mistake again.

Meaning like arguing with her because we're having problems about her treating me like okay when I treat her so well and special because I do everything for her, taking care of her and always being there for her. But when I try to go to her for my emotional needs because I'm sad and crying her about I want to see her and that I felt bad about what I did in the past. She just ignored me. This is texting. I try to get her to talk on the phone most of the time but she's always busy with family and work but somehow has the time to go on social media and just spam the crap out posting up stuff and I get annoyed by it because she's ignoring me and she's been ignoring me since last week Wednesday. She got back to me Sunday after posting up something and express me to be okay about how I felt and I just got angry at her and told her that, this has been one-sided because I'm not being treated right when I treat her, like I said, so well and special.

I know there's so much in this but I would appreciate what do you have to say about how do you girls make a guy feel special when he does everything for you.

And I appreciate you taking your time reading this and commenting it.

Updates

9 mo

Like she even says to me that I'm very special to her but I'm not being treated special enough. Like she'll thank me for everything I do for her and making her family happy but is me not being happy when she's spending too much time on social media when I want to talk to her. She just ignores me when she's on it

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9 mo

Anymore comments from anyone, I would appreciate it!! If this updates to more people?

[midnightmoon05]

Pay attention to their action.. not their words.

my husband -

1. I am all ears when he talks. 2. I asked, honey…I was distracted…can you say again. 3. Give him space to do his own things. 4. When he is tired, let him rest. 5. When he cooks a yummy meal, tell him how delicious and how lucky I am. 6. Give him massages. 7. When he made mistakes, and he feels bad about making a wrong turn, tell him it’s okay.. we can go back… no worries. 8. Minimize stress. 9. Share good laughs. 10. Joke around … life is not that complicated.
being supportive, being loving, being respectful. It’s the action that counts at the end.

[Jakoesu]

Thank you for your kind words, thank you for your time!

[MemeSupreme]

im kinda similar to your girlfriend where i just push people away who are good for me. i feel guilty about ignoring him but i get weirded out by him being amazing and it feels claustrophobic. i try to make up for it with doing stuff showing i care

so stuff like surprising him with his favorite food, ask him how he's doing, show interests in things he likes, big spooning him, and stuff i feel like makes him feel appreciated. kinda like an apology lol

im sorry you're having to deal with that tho and i hope she opens up about why she's like that. ik it's exhausting

[Jakoesu]

Your picture kinda looks like her😊
Just from a far distance

[Jakoesu]

Thank you for telling me that. It helps to know something that sounds similar! me and her are just friends but I do feel like, we're kinda in a relationship because I do treat her like a princess and she even knows it too before I said that.

And yes, it is really exhausting and frustrating but I love her no matter what because love hurts. Like no matter how painful it can be or hurtful that she brings to me, I always love her, because I will never find a girl that is special like her

[Jakoesu]

And thank you for caring about me, I hope she does open too. I've been trying to be patient with her because I know that I upsetted her.

When she knew that I treated her like a princess without me saying it, it made me feel like, we're connected to each other