Why don't YOU ask your ex Girlfriend if it would be OK if you asked one of her friends out on a date. Don't tell her which one and see what her answer is. If she says she is cool about it mention it to your love interest.
Chances are she (the bestie) will already know about it before you speak to her anyway and you will get your ex's real opinion from her. If she was cool with it when she was telling her best mate then go for it again. I will warn you that it is likely that the sitaution will change once your ex gets wind that it's her best mate that you like! But then that's her problem.
She need never know that the best mate knew all along. But the truth always has a funny way of coming out :)
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Sweetie, I'm sorry to be harsh, but her ignoring you and the awkwardness you guys had WAS her answer "no". If she was feeling the same way for you she would have told you when you told her your feelings. I'm sure part of it too is that you're her best friend's ex...that's just a big no-no in the Girl World.
Bottom line - if you want to continue being her friend, accept that you've received your answer, realize that she's letting it go and you should let it go too. Good luck hun, I know it's not easy to have feelings for someone but be "just friends"...but I'd rather be friends than nothing at all :)
It's basically part of the best friend rule book to not date other frieds' exes. And her ignoring you was her answer of no. And maybe she was scared to tell you that. So she thought ignoring you was the next best thing? I don't exactly know for sure.
But, you should just take in that she doesn't have the same, mutual feelings for you and just keep truckin' forward. Plenty of other women out there. So open yourself up to them.
Go back to being friends.
It's better than losing her friendship.
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