Where do you even meet girls these days?

[Anonymous]

This has kept me single for years because I haven’t figured it out. I’m about to turn 30 and I’ve never had a girlfriend, but I have no idea where to meet any girls. And even if I did, I’m worried that the fact that I’m 30 and never been with anyone will send them all running away from me. They say that online dating doesn’t work for most guys these days and approaching random girls in public places seems like a losing strategy too. I just don’t know where you’re even supposed to go to meet anyone.

[8UniquelyBoring8]

First off, it's important to remember that being single at 30 is not uncommon and does not make you any less valuable or desirable. It's also important to focus on improving yourself and enjoying your life, rather than solely on finding a girlfriend.

That being said, there are many ways to meet new people and potentially find a girlfriend. Here are a few suggestions:

1. Join clubs or groups that interest you, such as hiking, cooking, or sports groups. This will not only allow you to meet new people with similar interests, but also provide opportunities to develop friendships that could turn into romantic relationships.

2. Attend social events such as parties, networking events, or even concerts. These are great places to meet new people and potentially strike up a conversation with someone you're interested in.

3. Consider online dating as a tool to expand your dating pool. While it may not work for everyone, it can be a great way to connect with new people and potentially find a romantic partner.

Remember, approaching women should always be done with respect and consent in mind. Start with friendly conversation and take things slowly. Don't be discouraged if things don't work out right away—sometimes it takes time to find the right person. Focus on developing yourself and your interests, and the right person will come along in due time.

[Asker]

Well I feel like it’s uncommon to have never dated at 30 and I’ve tried most of those things and have still met 0 women.

[Nikki1989]

Is this a serious question?

Girls are everywhere, just open your eyes.

[Asker]

Yes but they don’t all want to be approached now do they?

[Anonymous]

Concerts and music festivals. The liquor is flowing, the music is pumping, and her panties are coming off almost by themselves. You really don't even have to do the work man. When she lqoured up she's doing it all for you.

[Asker]

Most women go to those with friends and are there to listen to music, not to find a partner

[Opinion Owner]

Really? Because I get approached by at least one woman at least every other time I go. And believe me that don't happen elsewhere.

[Asker]

I’ve never been approached at music festivals or concerts.

[Opinion Owner]

Are grooving and enjoying yourself? I'm typically having a ball. I'm a very buttoned up person otherwise.

[Asker]

Yes I’m usually under the influence and having a good time. Its just not something that women do at these places.

[slatyb]

Online dating worked for me. Or you could find activity groups that attract single women.

[Asker]

It did work for you? What app did you use?

[slatyb]

I used match. There was some notion that at least some of the members were paying to be there and were somewhat serious. Even so, there were relatively few women that interested me. In the Dallas area there was about one new woman a month who was a possibility.

[Noodle_fan]

try to go to cat cafe at ur town , u can see many women there , and make new friends

https://www.youtube.com/embed/qUlrbtFfAhQ

[moviedude714]

I think cases like this are sadly becoming more common in modern times

[In_Trance]

outside. There's 3 Billion women on this planet