Simple question: where to meet girls?

[Anonymous]

Im 21 and been single for my whole life. I finally realized recently that I've been single this whole time because no girls have gotten to know me and understand me. I played sports in high school and currently go to a community college (in my last semester) before transferring to the major university nearby. My "job" is to coach basketball as an assistant coach at the school I went to. I want to be a math teacher and be a college basketball coach and I feel that girls don't see the side of me at basketball and only see the quiet side of me at school.

I am wondering if I will ever meet the right girl. Where should I be looking for that right girl?

[bluenose1872]

It's a lot harder now mate. Women have a warped superiority complex these days. They think they're beautiful little butterflies even if they're ugly dogs. Thy just stick their noses up at most guys unless the guys rich or very good looking. On top of that a lot of the young ones are lesbians in training and don't even know it. They're taught to hate men coz they think we're their oppressors. Most of them are a nightmare anyway. They're never satisfied with their life or their possessions or you. Everything's a work in process including you. She'll constantly compare you to other guys that are doing better. She'll want to dictate what you wear, your haircut, what you watch and eat. They're a pain in the arse. Women split most relationships up not men. That's lies. Is there anything worse than the person you thought loved you for you basically telling you you're not up to scratch? In fact they don't tell you, they hint at it and smile so it seems like a reasonable thing. Women use men like workmen use ladders. To get to other levels in society. A woman will happily fuck a man she thinks is disgusting if he'll provide what she needs. Do you really want someone like that around you? Be careful. You can judge a woman by her eyes and what pours out of her mouth. Don't make allowances coz she's a woman. An evil bastard says and does the same things whether they're female or male

[DiogoRibeiro]

I don't think there's a specific place. I particularly never met anyone interesting in night clubs. Had more luck in pubs and bars.

But most of the women I dated I met via friends or even the Internet. With Tinder and other similar apps available, it should be easier now than when I was single.

Good luck! ;)

[Alohaloli]

I think you need to just be yourself do what you do and you will draw in the right person. Follow your passion. You aren't where you want to be yet!!! You are at community college. So get to the university so u meet someone that will match your education level. Then doing presentations she will see more of you. You can let that other side out and university girls like a book worm. I used to enjoy the university gym and playing pool near the university. It is a great place to meet a girl. Hang with other guys go have a beer dress hip throw quarters in the jukebox and look cool. Do you have a fresh looking hairstyle. A fitted tshirt to show your abs and arms. Clean looking shoes. Show her you are a bit refined like knowing good beer and good music and be relaxed and let things unfold naturally feel the slow natural pace smile laugh ask her a question and really listen for the answer. Go from there. Ask her what music she wants to hear on the jukebox.

[bombamboum]

They are many places to meet women. You do activities and are at college. You can meet women there. You probably don't allow it to happen. You have to put yourself in position that allow it to happen. It doesn't mean you're "looking" per say but just give yourself the occasion.
Try Internet. No matter what, you'll talk to women and it will help. That's what I did when I was in your situation. Sure I'm a girl so it's apparently easier but I just didn't let it happen. I pushed myself and voila

[phil2]

randomly say hi to two girls who look young and single at a radio shack or other store, and then go on from there. two guys randomly tried to get me and my sister to hang out with them when I was single, at a walmart

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend literally went thought the same thing. He was single his whole life though community college and didn't meet me until his first semester at the huge state university we both went to. It was my first year there as well. So my point is, you have a much better chance at a university than community college. Clubs are also good. And of course there's online dating too.

[Zumba_dancing_27]

You can go to Bars, clubs, Singles meetup groups like for Meetup. com, you go to college find some that have the same interests as you like someone that like sports or in your class rooms or cafeteria, and bible study group at a church, or a Church.

[vmw2008]

Everywhere! Talk to girls in class. At the library. Coffee shop, Gym. Bars. Online dating. Just get some practice talking to women and you'll have a date in no time.

[Pixels82]

If it makes you feel any better, I'm 33 and never had a boyfriend and I'm still a virgin. Just put yourself out there... although that hasn't worked for me ever

[rgb008]

The gym
Clubs
Frats (if you want to join one)
Classes, lecture halls
Parties
Tinder
Online dating

[Insistent]

Online dating is close to useless unless the guys is very handsome or rich.

[rgb008]

@Insistent just because it hasn't worked for you, doesn't mean it won't work for someone else.

[Insistent]

I know, i got more or less 60 match on tinder, but it never worked, either they never even respond to me, or suddenly ignore me for no reasons.

[rgb008]

@Insistent download bumble if you want. its like tinder, but the girl has to initiate the conversations. you'll know right away if she's interested or not.

[Insistent]

Will try out thanks

[SarahsSummer]

We are everywhere. You just have to be more outgoing when around us. To get on our radar in the first place.

[Afro-dite9]

The really nice one's I always find offering me help in the bathroom*Raise's glass* here's a toast to u drunk friendly mf's 🍸🍷🍹🍻

[Afro-dite9]

But all jokes aside you can meet one anymore, there isn't a particular place they hang out at. If I knew I'd definitely help u out. But you seem sweet so someone will give u a chance just be patient and let it find u not the other way around. Because all of us have the same problem don't let anyone here try to fool u

[AustinMan]

I think I'd start at women's basketball games. I'd also try to get introduced to some female coaches who can help you meet others.

[WalterRadio]

INTERNET.

You can cross path with thousands of women a day, and more than a few might be right for you.

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Activity clubs, libraries, school activities. etc...
You are going to meet a girl, don't sweat it dude. But you got to put yourself out there sometimes, you come off as the relationship type so just stick with what i said above.

[WhatTheHellAmy]

bars, pubs, coffee shops, nightclubs, concerts, museums, theaters, etc

[Blue___]

Try online dating ! Or you could literally meet gels anywhere.

[Blue___]

Girls *

[Insistent]

20 guys for 1 girls, literaly.

Real life wouild be easier.

[Anonymous]

It'll happen man. You at least got basketball going for you. I've never been interested in any sport and somehow still find girls. So if I can do it, you can do it!

[Other_Tommy_Wiseau]

parties
frats
dorm
just seeing a chick around
clubs/intramurals
mutual friends
class

not necessarily ranked in that order

[DeValdini]

go outside. look around find a girl talk with her. ! simple as fuck.

[killerboots]

If you want just hook ups, try the club. If you want a serious relationship, try the internet. Just make sure you get on some forums like this or hobbies that you like

[Smells-like-lavender]

Some women post that man can meet women at the gym but I thought women did not wanted to be bothered at the gym, or interrupt their work out time?

[Alexalex92]

Go out drink some beer in a nightclub or bar and have fun.

[blondfrog]

Just pay a hooker that's the easiest way.

[ConsultantIsBack]

class, gym, clubs, parties, friends-of-friends