So... Where can guys meet girls?

[Tdieseler]

I've been perusing the site and I've noticed an abundance of guys who seem to NOT be able to meet girls (please refer to my Takes), but for some reason (and i dont get why) cannot seem to be able to make a move.
My answer to that is that we meet girls everywhere, they are literally everywhere, all you have to do is approach one. Now, that is where things get complicated.
There are places though where singles meet singles... but all those places seem to have died out. So... asking for my fellow guys... where can you meet girls willing to date?

Disclaimer: This is limited to USA, I've heard that these places still exist in other countries but its dead in most states here.. figured i would ask. Are there any places left? (i like church lol)

i was going to add a personal story but i won't... this question is for my fellas that are ACTUALLY trying... I've got a system, its a go-get-her. so... have at it. Let the fellas know.

[_SOARER_]

You gotta just do it in every day experiences. If you a see a girl who is working at shoprite you ask her for help for something, then thank her, and then before she goes to do something else you ask for her name, and smile

Then go shopping around the same time next week, and when you see her say hello and ask her how she's been, if she seems happy to talk to you and her demeanor is friendly, strike up a small convo and then tell her have a nice day.

The next week, you make your move. You go shopping in stoprite, ask her how she is doing and then ask for her number and tell her you want to see her outside of work.
If she says no, fuck it. it is what it is. You smile, tell her "Alright well i better be going then :) " and dip.

You gotta do this at every store you shop at. You gotta have at least 3 different girls in 3 different stores. That way when one says no, you got 2 more chances.

`I think we need to just meet them in during their every day lives and be friendly and confident each time, and ask them out.

[JSmuve]

All the girls will say "anywhere", which while theoretically true, if you ask them where they don't want to be approached you then get a list of places or circumstances where they don't wanna be approached. So "anywhere" no longer means anywhere.

Like for instance, the only time I see girls that I find attractive enough to interest me is at the gym and to many women, that's a "don't approach me" zone. So that has to come off the anywhere-list.

Other times would be when they're walking around campus, but they're trying to get to class so obviously you can't bother them. Who wants to be stopped in the middle of a street by a random guy when you're trying to get somewhere? Exactly.

So, the list of places to meet a girl isn't very long, and often times doesn't align with places guys go.

[CHARismatic110]

So approach them at the end of their workout. Or before they get started. Or in between sets.

[JSmuve]

@CHARismatic110 That's some hollywood-level timing to pull that off, char

[CHARismatic110]

First off, the disrespect in your profile picture is HIGHLY unacceptable J. Secondly, it's not if you really think about it. Plus, that's clearly a common interest that the two of you have. You just have to find a way to capitalize off of it.

[JSmuve]

@CHARismatic110 I'm sure embiid's feelings won't get hurt considering all the chirping he does to other players. Guy got posterized and took the ball hilariously in the face on its way through the net.

[CHARismatic110]

Whattt? Embiid is a good guy! He doesn't talk smack. Unless it's in return to something someone said. Leave my team alone!

[Screenwriter]

There's nothing wrong with talking to someone at the gym if they respond to you with more than a few words. I've spoken to people in the pool, lifting weights, rowing. YOu have to gauge if they're open. If you get one word responses, then drop it. But sometimes on the treadmills if someone is humping it, you can have a chat... Crewing a sailboat on a meetup, playing ball, picnics... Any kind of relaxed situation.

[Tdieseler]

that is general shit... im talking targeted

[Screenwriter]

You mean a particular one on one conversation while someone is exercising? I'd say no. You could meet up afterwards over coffee or a smoothie. But really interrupting someone's workout. I don't think that'll work very often. If it's early in the morning, people are usually trying to hustle through a workout and get to work. Same at noon. Maybe it's more relaxed in the evening. You could try case by case. But working out is goal oriented. The person's there to achieve a result at that time...

[Bananaman177]

If you're hot, you can talk to them ANYWHERE at ANY TIME under ANY CIRCUMSTANCES.

If you're a schlub, then it's always the wrong place and wrong time.

When you hear girls say they don't like to be hit on at work, they mean they don't like to be hit on by UGLY guys at work. You have to read between the lines whenever you listen to women, because whatever they say is a heavily censored version of what they really mean. You know what a propaganda minister is? That's what a woman's brain is. They don't even know they're doing it most of the time, it's like breathing, they don't have to think about it.

[RolandCuthbert]

It is kind of hard to talk to the guys here and give advice. The guys here blame their dating woes on feminism and liberals. Libtards made the dating game too hard for them, so that's why they suck at it.

Not many here take responsibility for themselves. They will not focus on developing themselves, their self-esteem, and self-image. It is all about how the world is unfair to them

[slipperydip1994]

Tinder or a friends double date, blind dates, just ask friends man or go to some social events with friends and see whichever lady looks your way "with looks" you know. Not just looking but she's clearly liking what she sees. Just don't be a creeper lols.

Good luck man. Stay safe.

[slatyb]

Online. Mixed activity groups like meetups or charitable work like Habitat for Humanity. Take a class. Learn Salsa or Swing dancing. Join a co-rec league. Learn the names of your servers and bartenders, male and female. Seve them on your phone. People love to be greeted by name.

[Piteka5]

I think it's mostly at activities we do, music, gym, going to church, classes (applies to me but not to a lot of people), parks, pubs.
In my case, when I first met my ex we were in class and I just turned around one day and said something stupid and we started talking from then onwards

[Dark93]

First you have to figure out what kind of girl you want to meet.

Try going to museums, library's or even art galleries to meet people. That way if you see a girl and she's seems interested in a display you already have a topic to break the ice.

[UncleTouchyFingers]

dude quit chasing. if a girl wants you she will show it. guys need to quit be desperate it pathetic

[Tdieseler]

keep that mentality and end up a 40yr old virgin. I don't know about you... but men were built to chase

[Anonymous]

Guys need to quit chasing

[Wowgirl30q]

Limited to the USA 😂😂😂😂😂

[Tdieseler]

i can't be honest?

[Wowgirl30q]

It's so funny 😂😂

[Wowgirl30q]

I love it.