Since I moved back home from school, I've been striking out. I consider myself attractive - in university I had many girlfriends, I guess it was simpler when everyone around you is the same age.
We have a beach in our city, tried going there after work and weekends for an entire summer but have not seen anyone worth shooting for. Tried shopping, malls, coffee shops, local pubs.
Worked in a restaurant and got many numbers but the girls weren't willing to go out "I just met you so I don't want to meet up" (I always ask for coffee dates first). I'm now at a laboratory but am the youngest guy there...
I tried dating apps, met and hooked up with some girls but never anything meaningful.
Anyway, I'm giving up hope and thinking I'm going to die alone.
We have a beach in our city, tried going there after work and weekends for an entire summer but have not seen anyone worth shooting for. Tried shopping, malls, coffee shops, local pubs.
Worked in a restaurant and got many numbers but the girls weren't willing to go out "I just met you so I don't want to meet up" (I always ask for coffee dates first). I'm now at a laboratory but am the youngest guy there...
I tried dating apps, met and hooked up with some girls but never anything meaningful.
Anyway, I'm giving up hope and thinking I'm going to die alone.
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Every girl is going to give a different answer, but here’s mine.
I met my boyfriend on ChristianCafe. It’s an online dating site and isn’t for everyone, especially if you’re not religious, but the main focus is on people’s values. The questions you answer are more spiritual, rather than hyper-sexual like other dating sites I’ve tried. I wanted a husband, and I knew that I wasn’t going to find my husband in a bar or club.
I’m also a homebody; I go to work, I go to church, I stay at home. If I went to a coffee shop, it was to get coffee. If I went to the mall, it was to go shopping. The only places I went to look for a guy were the only places where I wanted one to be found; church or online.
Definitely a great perspective, thank you !
Ha ha, you’re in your 20s, I wouldn’t be worried about dying alone, try this one. Try not worrying about it, try to focus on something else, and it will probably happen.
It's been 4 years! I'm not used to this at all
Right now I'm focusing on my career, trying to move up, but family/friends giving me trouble for being single still... but I'm trying 😔
Don’t worry about it, when, and if it’s meant to be, it will happen. Just continue to focus on your career, dress nice and have confidence.
Try dating apps. Otherwise, hm…I dunno, join a social group or go to a bar.
Social group? That's a different idea - like what?
I dunno, just Google social groups in your area.