Why do I get rejected everytime I ask a girl out?

[Anonymous]

I’m 6’2” and I haven’t missed a gym day in two years and have the physique to show it for it. I have a good paying job, no criminal record. What’s the deal?

[_Maya_]

What you have listed are not what are the most important things I look for. Without knowing you, It is really hard to tell what the problem might be. Maybe it is the way you come off to people. You might not be doing it intentionally or even know that you are doing it. It may just be something like that. Maybe it is your personality or lack thereof. I don't mean you have a bad personality but it doesn't shine through so people can see you for who you are. Maybe you are just meeting the wrong types of women. There could be a lot of reasons. Really hard to say without knowing you personally.

[Asker]

I don't know, I’m pretty outgoing and talk a lot, I joke pretty frequently. All I really want is someone to go to the gym with and play switch w

[_Maya_]

Those are all positives. Maybe just meeting the wrong girls. Where do you meet them generally?

[Asker]

Typically the bar (I’m 24), Work, and the Gym. I feel like these are all good spots for my age range right?

[Asker]

Clarification: not coworkers, I travel around a lot for work

[_Maya_]

Well I am a bartender so I know the bar and club scene. Not the best place.

[Asker]

I don’t know where else to meet single women other than going out though.

[Ckckaka]

Maybe that's the thing, the gym and videogames are not what most girls find interesting. Maybe change your social circle or suggest other activities?

[_Maya_]

@Ckckaka yep I hate being hit on at the gym. Video games are meh take or leave. I like some old school stuff like Mario.

[Pollokpark]

Your either looking for fun ( get on a lads holiday right now get it booked ) or are you looking for a wife ( join your local church, hang around nice places nice people go) persistance & be romantic if you like someone but dont stalk, be a bold & confident.

Always remember some people like peanut butter with bits & some people dont like the peanut butter or the jar its in. Youl be piled in cats in no time ( if you book magaloof)

[kylee2437]

Those are surface level aspects , now dig a little deeper.

[Asker]

In moron terms please, I’m dense

[BrookeAZ90]

If you're physically so great, then perhaps there's something with your attitude or personality or intelligence that cause people to reject you

[Asker]

I have a bachelors of science so I guess I just have a terrible personality 😓

[Ckckaka]

Not necessarily... What type of girls do you approach? Maybe there's a misalignment between who you approach and who you really atract?

[catiecatie]

Age can play a role in it. Shit some times even looks can due to females thinking you are a player. I have a crush on this guy pretty cute, funny and nice and I don’t see a girlfriend on his social media account. Last time I saw one was several years ago. So I don't know but he seems interested but just a terrible texter. I’m afraid to ask him out, but I don't know what to do honestly. He’s fine when it’s just us two together, it just seems weird texting. I don't know but that’s what I think.

[Anonymous]

“I’m 6’2” and I haven’t missed a gym day in two years and have the physique to show it”

Now tell us something about yourself that is actually important.

[Lauliss]

Everyone is different, so I don't know. Everyone has their preferences.

[DreamsBiDay]

The way you ask her or you’re too cocky? Maybe you don’t seem genuine and down to earth

[LostandFound__x]

Maybe you’re not going for a compatible girl.