When dating, would it ever bother you that the person has not been in a relationship longer than two years?

[Justneedtokno]

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The only reason why this question arose was in. There is Bing guys that’s like if a woman hasn’t been in a relationship more than two years, then she is unsteady, but then I also look at that as the opposite or if a man hasn’t been on a job more than two years I don’t see the stability in it

[Smiling_Baby21]

No it wouldn't. And I think I am more concerned about me getting to know the other person; their character traits, personality, what they like to do or how they do their things. How long they have been single or not, it doesn't matter. Because as long as they're not still with that person, I am more interested in being his present.

[DizzyDesii]

2 years is great, shit. I just need him to have been in at least one relationship period lmao. If he’s a virgin, great, but hopefully he's kissed at least one person before.

[Davidwilsonq2]

That’s cool of you

[AviatorTom]

No, 2 years is actually a pretty long time. My relationships typically lasted 6 months or less... until my 20-year marriage that ended amicably in divorce, and it's 7 years and counting with my SO.

[DarkWinterNights]

Nah. Multiple failed long term relationships would be more of a tell because it may indicate personality flaws. Whereas many short term probably just means simple incompatibility.

[LazerBean]

No, and in fact I would see someone being in a failed long term relationship as a negative.

[Fireguy17]

Not at all.
Especially when you are younger.
It takes time to get to know someone.

[OddBeMe]

First off, I never expected anyone to tell the trust straight away. But I guess like a corporate hirer, that’s be a red flag. Small one.

[BoopBoopBeep]

No... sometimes life gets in the way. I'd be curious why though.

[NamerOfStars]

No- but I'm reaching the age where I suppose it probably should.

[Anonymous]

No. Because I've never been in a relationship longer than 2 years. I've had women reject me for this reason and it's not a fair judgement. So I'm not going to judge a woman unfairly for the same thing.

[krin_m]

Normally, no. Each person has their own reasons that are valid most of the times.

[Jamie05rhs]

Why would that be an issue?

It would bother me more if they were in a serious relationship and they broke up.

[RHK36]

Context. Context matters in everything. The reason why is what changes the outlook.

[Philyouup]

if they are young, no. 30 or older. it might concern me

[msc545]

No - two years seems like a long time actually.

[Alex8736]

There's a reason behind everything

[slatyb]

How old are they?

[Justneedtokno]

Any age

[Lauliss]

Not at all.

[EaterPeter]

Nope.