Men, if you met a girl who was visiting your city for a date, what would your mindset be?

[Anonymous]

If a woman was visiting your city briefly for work, (and you also happen to visit her city often), would you take out time on the weekend to see her specifically? And continue communicating when she leaves?

context; I was visiting another city, and a man who lives there actively pursued me to take me out. When we met, we spent hours together talking and it was wonderful.. after that, he told me he had to visit my city and is staying a few extra days to spend time with me. Is this something a man would do in just a casual manner?

[mattclark242]

I do not think it a casual manner . He like you. that why he doing it. My mindset would be to show a girl all the interesting thing about my city if she never ben there.

If I where to go to her city I like for her to show me interesting thing about her city like I did for her. We could make like 2 or 3 dates out of it. she could show me place she like going and eating at and historical places and interesting thing about that city.

If we end up being with each other for a long time we have to see if I move to her city or if she like to move to mine. Are we could meet and in the middle or go back and forth. But that could be hard.

[BadApple69]

The answer you are looking for is he is interested in you of course. What exactly his interest is, is for you to find out. Is it dating, or just sex. Some guys will invest a lot just for sex. Other guys not so much. So that’s your job when you go to dinner or to the park for a walk, or whatever… talk talk talk and talk some more. Find out who he is and what he is searching for. Find out about his family, his work and what he likes to do for fun…. Find out everything! How did you meet this guy?

[Finchie40]

It sounds like he likes you and wants to get to know you more , A guy isn’t going to waste his time with a girl that he isn’t interested in period , So it sounds like he is attracted to you and wants to see if you both Have great chemistry and connection together, Now to really know what his true intentions are , is something you have to figure out on your own on whether he just wants casual sex with you or he is actually looking for a partner? It’s always a 50/50 chance when we meet someone new and exciting , because we can’t read each other’s minds, so knowing what his true intentions are is something no one can answer for you, Whether he just wants sex or he is seeking a real connection with you , who knows. But he clearly likes you and is interested in you

[BoopBoopBeep]

Depends on the guy. Sticking around for me wouldn't be hard to extend a couple days. Sticking around an extra 3-5 would take some work. You'd have to be special for that. I'd more likely leave and come back soon. Just easier logistically. There's always a day built into the timeline to account for delays or whatnot. I could burn that. For most of the people I know, they could do small trips frequently. I mean it's a small world. A lot of us have plenty of airline miles.

[RHK36]

She would spend most of time indoors doing indoor activities until she left 🤭😬

That's been my experience lol


LDR doesn't work unless both have real plans to move closer to one another. If there's nothing like that then it's a casual relationship hence the indoor only activities 😅

[razelove]

Sure, I have an ex that I see when I'm going through her area, and she comes here for a week or so sometimes to visit. If she ever moved here I'd consider something more serious, but as it is things are 100% casual.

[Adam1978]

I wouldn't meet her, she should be with her date that time and I don't approach couples or complete strangers.

[DarkWinterNights]

It’s a good sign, but long distance has its disadvantages. I would see where it goes. It’s clear he has a thing for you. Whether that’s something short term or long term is impossible to tell.

[Kaneki05]

Well she's someone I am making effort to be around and like. Which means we are really good friends which I undoubtedly will have a crush on.

[ohsheeT]

Of course if we have talked previous and we had the same interest and stuff yes I would definitely

[OddBeMe]

Do you often date guys you just met? One day in a new city seems…. far too trusting.

[Tomisworthless]

If he knows you’re a out of tower there for a short time he’s looking for a hookup

[msc545]

He would do this only if he really was attracted to you.

[Anonymous]

Well, he’s probably interested, but the distance is what makes it kind of hard to become more than just friends

[Anonymous]

"Let's have some fun". Because this is all we have or are going to have.

[spartan55]

Wait to see if it actually happens first.

[exitseven]

I would try to make it a real thing.

[Danny_dan92]

She’s actually visiting the city to fuck/hookup

[KrakenAttackin]

Taking her to pound town.

[Greenbean27]

I'd try it out, it may work out it may not.

[Snedger____]

Depends

[justabuddy]

Sure, why not.

[Anonymous]

Id feel excited.