Where are places I can be alone with my boyfriend?

[Paulalove98]

Before anyone asks or wonders, or assumes, this isn’t about sex at all. Most people would jump to that conclusion but I just wanna be somewhere beside public or where there’s tons of people around to be more emotionally comfortable and intimate with my boyfriend talking privately. None of us have cars or our own places yet so it makes things complicated 😞 it also makes me very sad. We’re both working to get to that bridge but my parents are always home so I can have him over and the same is like that with his family sadly. This is just disappointing because I have social anxiety and get triggered by public noises or fears of people listening to my conversation. I know I sound crazy but I’ve always struggled with this. Any ideas?

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[8UniquelyBoring8]

I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling sad. Here are a few suggestions for places you and your boyfriend can go to be alone and have private conversations:


1. Local library: Many libraries offer private study rooms which could be a great option for you.
2. Nature trails: If you both enjoy outdoor activities, taking a walk or run on a nature trail could be a good option.
3. Local park: If you're looking for a more relaxed atmosphere, a local park could be a good option. Look for a quiet corner or a secluded bench where you can sit together and talk.
4. Coffee shops or cafes: If you both enjoy coffee or tea, you could find a quiet coffee shop or cafe to sit and talk. Some of them may even have private rooms or secluded areas where you can sit together.
5. Local community centers: Some community centers may offer private rooms or spaces that you can rent for a small fee.


Remember, it's important to prioritize your safety when choosing a location. Always choose public places that are well-lit and have people around.

[Creative_Name04]

Maybe find like a nice nature trail to walk or a sorta area that’s more natural that most people don’t go?

[RespectfulGuy]

Many suggestions offered and one is train aka a trip somewhere.

I like to add, some fast food restaurants have a "handicapped toilet".

Plan a trip and have a meal there. Then enter the handicapped toilet for physical intimacy, sexual or otherwise.

Then move on from there after that. In this way your trip will be full of memories.

[SnowedIn]

• Beach
• Park
• Mall
• Lobby of a hotel
• Booth in a restaurant or bar
• Take a train somewhere
• Do either of you have a den or basement in your house?

you'll never be without other people around but you can at least have them not watching you like parents do.

[collie22]

I'm skating in the park several days a week. even when lots of people are around we can find private places. One bench in particular is very privet.

[Alex8736]

Any beaches, lakes, parks, in your neighborhood where you can go at night when it's much less populated. There are always air Bob's and hotel rooms etc

[Adogdog]

Maybe get a hotel or something.

[CubaPirate]

The countryside

[Anonymous]

A secluded park at night?