Im 18 and looking for a girl to have fun with. I have been asking girls out for the past 2 years and have had no success. What is wrong with me?

[Awesomesauce2005]

[inhua]

start with your looks first. having good looks will solve 99% of your dating problems and it's not just facial and body appearance but also height and hair

then look at your finances and social status. the more money and followers you have on social media, the higher your chances of success

after that maintain your integrity and dignity without coddling and pandering to any nonsense and bullshit you would have to endure

then it's your turn to start filtering out the girls you would want

[Awesomesauce2005]

I look pretty good according to everyone I've asked. Im 5'9 with blue eyes and brown hair and i got in a thick beard earlier than usual

[Awesomesauce2005]

Im debt free, extremely financially stable and I already have my life laid out.

[inhua]

[ I look pretty good according to everyone I've asked ]

who exactly have you been asking? actions should speak louder than words

no matter how good looking you are said to be by everyone, you don't have the results to back this claim up

[Awesomesauce2005]

First of all im 5'9, i get a haircut once a month, i shower and wash my face every day. Im more financially stable than most middle aged people. I make 46,000 annually, my bills monthly are about 680 and i dont eat out at all.

[inhua]

girls tend to want taller men, at least 6 feet tall and men who are older or at the very least same age. this would only limit you to 18 year old girls, maybe you could get some 19 year old girls but your pool is rather limited as opposed to if you are 24 years old

even then pushing height aside, how manly do you actually look as in do you still look like a boy or a full grown man because they could be the difference

46000 isn't too bad but unless you have your independent residence and your own vehicle, it's going to be hard for you

if you are truly 18 as you said, then you are just recently an adult but time is on your side if you begin your grind

I understand your desire to want to have fun but the dating market has dictated that you can't be a fuckboy even if you wanted to

[Awesomesauce2005]

I don't have fun by myself but I just figure if i find someone they aren't going to be satisfied with sitting around watching Netflix lol
And additionally people tell me i look and act 25. Should I lie about my age because when girls ask my age and i tell them im 18 they lose interest instantly. Im ok with dating women 18-25, i just dont want to date someone with kids lol

[inhua]

I wouldn't mention age if I were you. try to look older and it'll give better results

it's not necessarily about how old you are but how old you look

[Awesomesauce2005]

Good advice that i will act apon lol, thanks

[exitseven]

You just want to have some fun and not interested in having an adult relationship

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[Awesomesauce2005]

I've tried looking for both and when i wanted an adult relationship the girl said i was tro young and she was 21 and i can't find any girls to hang out with

[Awesomesauce2005]

Nope i want the fun for the other person. My idea of fun consists of rod runs, hiking, mountain drives and binging Netflix

[Boomchakalaca]

Its probably ur appearance. 🤷🏻‍♀️ u can always style ur hair different or trim smthn up

[Nikki1989]

Hard to say without knowing you personally.

[Awesomesauce2005]

Im weird, im 18 dont drink dont smoke dont party, and all i do is work and go to car shows with my 1979 mgb

[joeND]

A woman once told me a guy Jon made love to her and he was terrible at it, he only took care of his needs. She told every friend at her college to avoid jon.

[Awesomesauce2005]

@joeND i never went to college and dont plan on it and im a virgin

[exitseven]

@Awesomesauce2005. My older cousin had a 78 MGB. It was a fun car to drive

[Awesomesauce2005]

@exitseven they are very fun to drive and they are one of the best classic cars to have as a daily driver because they get 27 mpg, they are reliable, and they are really easy to get parts for and they aren't very expensive.

[Iron_Man]

Focus on schooling or working not having fun, fun gets you diseases, one day find a serious relationship and get married

[Awesomesauce2005]

Lol thats definitely not my problem, i work and am homeschooled and i never party and i don't plan on being permiscuios

[Iron_Man]

Find girls at college to hang out with and go to football games starting in September keep it nice and friendly professional

[Awesomesauce2005]

I don't plan on going to college lol

[Awesomesauce2005]

Im a welder

[Iron_Man]

Then find a Christian dating site

[Awesomesauce2005]

Im agnostic lol

[Iron_Man]

Ugh 😣

[Awesomesauce2005]

I know i weird. Lol

[joeND]

I bet it is because you don't have a great job. after I got aa good job I had women before had none. Women in desire of a family want aa bread winner.

[Awesomesauce2005]

I build and design custom sewer jetting equipment, can't get much better than that without going to college

[Christoff92]

Slimmer down a little bit. Don't be to straight forward.

[Lowiu]

That depends on how you do it

[Anonymous]

Date an older lady!

[Awesomesauce2005]

I tried dating a preschool teacher that was 21 but she asked my date of birth and apparently 18 years and 4 months is too young

[Opinion Owner]

You could ask someone you know if there's any ladies they know who would want to have fun with you

[BigRed1987]

You’re 18…relax

[Awesomesauce2005]

It would be easier if in those 2 years of rejection I got a couple of dates or yeses