Do people hate really feminine women?

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MrOracle · Accepted Answer

Feminists (not all of whom are female) are the ones who hate feminine women. More traditional men love them, as long as they're the real deal.

Most of us strongly prefer ALL NATURAL women, flaws and all, over plastic Barbies, tattoos, piercings, and blue hair. Girls who not only own, but actually WEAR dresses when the weather permits, and NOT just for going to clubs.

We prefer women who have feminine energy - something all-too-rare today, after Feminism has pushed decades of "girl-boss" ideology.

But, men are also good at adapting. If we can't find women like this, then we stay single. Men who desire sex will find women to bang, and will do the necessary work to make that happen, but they won't commit to those non-traditional women. Other men won't even bother - they'll save their money and effort and they'll invest, they'll fix up their house or their car, go to the gym, or go do things with their guy friends.

The Feminists think they can change what men want in women - and, yeah, there are weak, pathetic simps who they CAN change - but most men just aren't having it. So if those women want to go be "strong and independent", we're happy to let them. Go have your career, spend 20 hours a week commuting to work, deal with office politics, etc. Just don't come crying to us for help unless you've got your checkbook or credit card with you.

As for the feminine women, they'll have no trouble attracting men and getting a real relationship if they want one - AS LONG AS they're not trying to get it from the top 10% guys - the hot, popular guys that all the girls want - because those guys are never going to commit to any woman, and so the only thing they value is easy casual sex at his convenience, until he gets tired or bored with the girl or she becomes a hassle, at which point he makes a phone call and a replacement arrives.

A feminine woman with more realistic expectations can find a man with ambition and promise and who WANTS to take care of her and make her happy, and has no problem committing to her.

RavVid · Accepted Answer

I think it would be rare for guys not to like a feminine woman. They have qualities we respect.

However I could see feminists being upset and disapproving of feminine women. Whilst they will say women should be able to be whatever they want, should that be trad then there seems to be a lot of hate and vilification coming their way.

AviatorTom · Answer

I'm sure some men and women dislike feminine women, because feminine women don't fit their desire for what a woman should be. Most people, though, I think either like feminine women or are neutral.

Like the old adage...

You can please all of the people some of the time, and some of the people all of the time, but you can't please all of the people all of the time.

Moose304 · Answer

Most folks have a tendency to want to pigeonhole people into groups. Of all the things I see humans do this is a top 5 of the things that piss me off. Over the past 18 months, I have started to see a 48-year-old Attorney exclusively. One of the qualities I love about her is she is as feminine and polite as people allow her to be. I have watched her stop a confrontation with just a smile. Both of us hate the use of passive-aggressive language. What I love about her the most is her default mode is to stay in her feminine, but will get into her masculine if needed. Not long ago she won a difficult case. Came to my apartment and just sit talking about how the defendant (her client) was the true victim. That evening we decided to go out. While eating it started to rain outside. As we left she grabbed my hand and dragged me out into the rain and we started dancing, acting like teenagers. I don't hate feminine women, I don't hate masculine women either. In some ways, she reminds me of this song!

Anonymous · Answer

On this site, a lot of the men tend to hate just about all women for various reasons. They don't like us being educated, having a career or having enough self-respect to stand up to them. They want a maid/cook who can also be used as a baby factory.

Xoxocutekitty · Answer

On here, people hate a woman willing to go undergo a cosmetic procedure to emphasize their feminine features (boob job, nose job, Botox injections).

I think a lot of guys want a feminine woman and struggle with having the emotional IQ to keep up with her.

ohsheeT · Answer

In the world today to all the stupid titles that they have for everybody everything is ridiculous I think that there are more feminess women that hate feminine women I don't care what the title is if she has to have a title I don't want to be with her I didn't want to be around she's just a regular human being with a good heart beautiful smile and is happy is confident he's caring and she's feeling more power to her is she believes in herself I believe in her that girls with titles they all suck just for the fact they want you to know they have a title I could care less

Lionman95 · Answer

No though it might seem like it from time to time. I think what is rather a problem of modern guys is that they expect a woman to be feminine but they can´t get a long with her being feminine.

I think the problem is that those guys either don´t know how to be masculine or they are unsure if they are allowed to be masculine and since that would mean they take the lead. Since many guys are unsure about how to behave best it may seem like that.

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

Hell no. Masculine women are cringe and annoying.  I like sweet and shy women who embrace their femininity

Anonymous · Answer

Whats considered really feminine?  Because I see two options. Really girly and bratty. Or calm, collected and confident. . . One is entitled, narcissist and full of herself. The other one is confident, honorable, skilled, admirable. One of them picks fights with almost everyone. Is judgmental, cannot stop complaining. The other one is calm, collected. Has composure, has humility. SO, I don't know 🤷🏻‍♀️. YOU TELL ME WHICH ONE IS CONSIDERED FEMININE….

provokeesmokee · Answer

No, lots of people really love them. I think what people dislike are women who claim being a bimbo as "feminine" when it's just being stupid as fuck.

Mallic00 · Answer

It really depends on your definition of "Feminine" Most self described feminine women tend to be reliant on others and hopelessly incompetent on their own. They need to manipulate and exploit others to get what they want, but when forced to do anything on their own they are completely useless.

There's a reason why people give the side eye to these types in the business world because they assume all they did is "Sleep their way to the top" and didn't actually earn their position.

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

Is that still a little thing? It's hard because I feel like most feminine woman are raised in a way that they want the man to take care of them and they don't have to contribute anything other than a bubbly personality.

I like a bubbly personality, but I really like a woman who grabs the modern world by the horns and goes after something that inspires them. I my experience, it's very rare these two things come together.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

I think it's mostly trend-chasing man-hating feminists that hate anything that's too feminine the most. You know... the ones that want you to see you pregnant so you can get an abortion, not the women that want to see you happy with kids.  Feminine women are on my boat to coom town

razelove · Answer

I can say for sure that men don't. It seems like many women do, they tend to be able to settle down much easier, because, again, men want them a lot. Feminists will hate you like the plague.

Do you remember the backlash for trad wives? Like damn, these women are just housewives posting tic toc videos on baking and cleaning for their kids, you'd think they leaked recipes for nerve gas or something.

hahahmm · Answer

If by people you mean mentally disturbed people: yes.

Smashingdoozy · Answer

Nothing wrong with feminine women. Nothing wrong with masculine women. Nothing wrong with women who show both or none.

Women are women and women are beautiful no matter where they sit on the social gender scale.

fonduegirl · Answer

It depends? Some feminine girls can be very annoying. Like throwing their friends under bus for approval, gossiping about the same, caring too much about men's opinions and having no individuality, not breaking up with jerks, being mean to others who don't understand fashion, body shaming etc. That's an individual trait, if that's you, yes I find you repulsive.

thatshydork · Answer

Despite what most people on this website might tell you, no, most feminists don’t hate really feminine women. I mean, I’m a feminist and I love doing my makeup from time to time, wearing dresses, getting flowers, and baking.

KatherineJ · Answer

I think there is a misconception that being a feminine woman means being weak, or not being goal oriented. A feminine woman can be strong, and smart. She can also chase her dreams like any other woman.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Only jealous women and gay men hate feminine women.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

I love feminine women. I don't like prissy women. If we don't share the same operational definition then I can't give you an honest answer, but I don't know any men that don't like feminine women.

Reem12345reem · Answer

most men are masculine , so obviously they're attracted to feminine women , there's no attraction if there's no polarity , but some may think being feminine is weakness but it takes a lot of courage to be vulnerable

Anonymous · Answer

It depends what you mean by that. I don't have a problem with a woman who's really feminine. Unless she absolutely refuses to get her hands dirty. I mean like if she too feminine to change a tire... I mean life happens. That's a skill EVERYONE should know. That doesn't spell feminine that spells just plain pathetic.

Decoded93 · Answer

I can't imagine anyone hating a woman for being feminine unless they hated women or they hated femininity, so like extreme mgtows or extreme feminists, I guess that's like this horse shoe effect where the extremes become really similar

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

I'd say no. Most people prefer a feminine woman. I personally like butch women since I'm mostly girly myself though.

DizzyDesii · Answer

I’ve seen more preferring feminine women. I dont really care what the majority want. I choose from those that want me in return

Anonymous · Answer

What made you think that? Femenine women are amazing!!

glennos89 · Answer

No ofcourse not. Men like woman being feminine. We don't want masculinity in woman

genericname85 · Answer

the only people who hate feminine women are masculine women and men who can't attract feminine women.

MikeTheBartender · Answer

I absolutely love feminine women, I think I would hate the opposite, I don't want the granola chick that doesn't shave her armpits. Not that there's anything wrong with her, she's for some guy out there, but personally I like feminine

rukus88 · Answer

Dear god no! most people who hate them are feminist's, but they hate men too so... Men on the other hand are desperately looking for feminine women. They are high value and unfortunently rare nowadays

AnusNdaPainus · Answer

Women do because those are the ones that men want

jshm2 · Answer

What other types of women are there?  Sure you may think tomboys, amish, goths, punk etc are not as "feminine". but they are still feminine, just of a different taste.

AliceGregory · Answer

I love feminine them! Femininity is beautiful

Anonymous · Answer

No, in fact most men prefer feminine women. Only worthless piece of shit leftists and feminists hate feminie women.

LiamJHayden · Answer

"People" encompasses over eight billion people. There are undoubtedly those who do. I am not one of those people.

invalid1 · Answer

No the opposite. But if that's something they didn't decide does for themselves. like INHERITED genetics, it shouldn't actually feel anyone alienated, be it feminine or masculine, men or women.

EmmaMary · Answer

Fortunately the majority of women here have already answered on my behalf! Thank you so much Ladies. xxx

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I don't understand how men could be screaming from the rooftops about how they like feminine women and yet, there will still be women asking stuff like this.

asphaltrhymes · Answer

I like feminine women, but I wouldn't like a lady who's a princess or stuck-up. But I don't want a lady who's lazy or poor hygiene standards 😁👀

Meropatrick · Answer

No, other women do and its not hate its jealousy

SolitarySolace · Answer

I prefer feminine women.  Far more than masculine women. Women aren’t meant to be masculine and men aren’t meant to be feminine.

Miristheiss · Answer

Maybe masculine women might, the super feminists... because all the guys will want feminine women and are more apt to wife them up.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I LOVE feminine women!

UniquelyBasic · Answer

Depends on the person and their preference. Some really love it and others kind of want a woman who has a mix of both Masculine and Feminine traits.

bolverk · Answer

Personally speaking I do not, they only ones that I've really seen hating on feminine women are the butch multicolour haired feminists and their allies.

joehypo1 · Answer

dont know about anybody else but I happen to really like them

Fireguy17 · Answer

No, but I am more drawn to independent women. I need someone that can function on her own esp. with my chaotic schedule.

molonski2 · Answer

Some women do , I don't know any men who dislike feminine well presented women.

KingslayerC · Answer

99% of the hating on women is for NOT being feminine.

Starlove4 · Answer

I’m really feminine and girly and my boyfriend said he loves that about me

_SillyShoes_ · Answer

No, they don't. Those that do just hate women I guess...

slatyb · Answer

I don't. I like a woman who is feminine without being flaky.

ImalwaysrightOK · Answer

Just the opposite, men adore feminine women.

mommymommymommy · Answer

Define feminine. And i don't mean divine feminine. I mean, just simply feminine. I don't believe in that divine shit

CantMissIt · Answer

LOL women on this site telling men what we should like or be attracted to.

BobLouis · Answer

I like feminine women. Manly women are gross to me.

DextroShade · Answer

The only people who hate feminine women are masculine women.

gothbxtch · Answer

no? people who aren’t assholes don’t mind anyone being feminine or masculine

Guanfei · Answer

No, in fact men love feminine women. And I mean real feminine women, not barbies, or "bad bitches".

Christoff92 · Answer

Depending how feminine she is. Just like do people hate tomboyish women. Same thing.

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