Should I bring up something about my appearance before seeing someone for the first time?

[Anonymous]

So I've had a surgery on my leg when I was really young and it left me with a scar and also can be noticed in the way I walk , but not in photos

Will it be fair to let the other know or am I just overthinking?

[slatyb]

You don't have an ethical obligation to disclose that before meeting someone, or after. None of us are perfect, and most of us don't expect perfection in our partners. If you are unable to participate in some common activities (e. g. you cannot
walk long distances), you might talk about it when it seems that things are progressing.

[MikeTheBartender]

You are probably overthinking it. I would honestly have to see the picture to know, but if a guy is really into you, I can't imagine it being something that would turn him off

[jahaims]

Most people won't care. If you are insecure about it just bring it up. Say something like sorry if this sounds a little weird but I wanted you to know about my leg before we take this any further in case it is a deal breaker.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Don't worry about all that. Your walk makes you unique and your scars make you a badass

[Meropatrick]

Meet them first and tell them during the meeting what happened to ur leg. If they didn't like it they might not ask for a second date

[DarkWinterNights]

I wouldn’t bother unless they ask about why you have a slight limp.

[In_Trance]

no, it's fine