I've always been a loving, thoughtful girl who dresses modest and doesn't ask for too much. but i somehow always managed to scare guys away. They prefer mean girls who makes them buy expensive gifts and pay for the date.
Im thinking of becoming the h0e type of girl men likes because being a nice girl hasn't paid off so far. I started buying shorter skirts, more colorful make up, lifting bras and stupid nail stuff. Appearantly thats what men likes.
Firstly I wouldn’t define a person as a hoe for the way they look or dress. Women calling women that is part of the problem. Secondly, I don’t think you should change yourself for any one! You won't find a nice man who is going to treat you right and love and accept you for who you are until you love yourself and have the confidence to be yourself. If you’re constantly changing based off of what you think a man wants you’re never going to find someone you deserve. You’ll just settle and be miserable. Instead of focusing on what men want or what other women are wearing or doing focus on what you want in someone and make that your priority
You are right, thank you:/
You should not turn into something you are not. If you want to dress modest, go ahead. I highly doubt you would want to settle down with someone who only values your body. Sure, having an attractive body is great, but a man who truly loves you would not and should not care if you dress modest.
I don’t want to talk down on women who wear revealing clothing, but we all have different opinions, so let’s try to respect each other without bringing other women down. All men are not the same. If you want to catch a man’s attention, try out dating apps and go out and interact with people.
I think it seems like guys prefer hoes while they actually don´t. The problem is that guys go by sight so they give attention to what catches their attention. Because a lot of guys don´t know how to date properly they instead choose the woman that shows herself off while realising later that they actually don´t want that woman for different reasons.
I think what you could do is try to get guys attention without changing your looks completely. Because though the h0e type girl might get a guy´s attention that´s often not for long.
Guys prefer your type for a serious relationship. And the whores for random fun. 22 year old dudes aren't as likely to be wanting a serious relationship. Especially the really attractive ones. This is why so many young girls go after guys that are a little older.
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Because women that carry themselves this way tend to actually want less of a man right in front of them and will accept a man in their life that doesn’t cut it for women that do love themselves.
Congratulations! You have lowered yourself and your self-esteem to try to satisfy others.
That's easy. Women in general do not show men ANY attention. Now a hoe may be playing the guy but she at least pretends to like him. And hoes do not hamstring themselves with men by the all the nonsensical unwritten rules and stipulations that regular women do. You know what I'm talking about. The, "I won't approach a guy", the " I won't text first" etc. Because her goal is to get with the guy and she gonna get that done by any means necessary. She doesn't really care about what other b****es think about her. Cause at the end of the day she gonna get her man.
They don’t see her as a person. Only as a sexual tool to be used for their pleasure. Don’t you dare change who you are. There are men who there who like girls like you. 😊
Thank you so much sis 💖 you are right i'll wait for the right guy to come along 🥺💖
You're my type of woman. Don't change yourself to please others, love yourself the way you are. you're the type of women men call wife material. Most man who want to start a family are looking for a woman like you.
I don't think you need to lose weight. I think your weight is fine, if you lose more weight you'll bee too tin and won't look good. .
I usually prefer women that dress normal. Minimal makeup look good In anything. The hoes you describe I would look like and think, high maintenance, bitchy, stuck up. I love women that wesr shorts and t-shirt, some in pj's, that want to chill. My wife wears little makeup.
I remember Taking my daughter to dance class on Sat morning 9 am. And there was a woman all ready dolled up with about an 1" of makeup on. She look fake and ugly to me.
Eventually you will find the right guy, I just want a woman with a higher sex drive.
Because those men are also hoes. Good men do not chase hoes. But if you cannot attract good men it's either because you are not out where they can meet you, or because they don't see you as wife material for whatever reason.
You should think of yourself as lucky. If a man is more interested in the girl who shows her bits to get attention then its not the man you want because he is never going to be satisfied. Keep doing you and dont stoop to that level, you want a man that respects you and values you and not whats under your clothes.
PS: its not all men, just the immature lustful ones
This is a hard question, cuz we don't want to straight up hoe, but we do want a girl that is feminine. So it's finding the right balance of how you are presenting yourself. The girl in the photo, is clearly a hoe,but her doing her hair like that, her staying in shape, her make up, that's good stuff, showing too much tits makes her a little more of a hoe. So you gotta find the balance.
I noticed that too. I was watching Camillas coronation the other day. And This was the biggest miscarriage of justice i have ever seen. The hoe won and became a queen. Unlike fairytales. I think men prefer hoes because they resemble primal desires. They r catty and competitive. Bad girl vibes. They r less restricted about morlas. They ignite the thrill in guys because they r more outgoing and free from restrictions. Its like a little adventure for a man to be with them
Very interesting POV, the same reason women prefer mature and tall men: our primitive insticts. I wish men werent two faced. They have fun with the hoes till they hit 30, then they say they want a good girl to marry. Why dont you marry a h0e
Its never stop when a guy is 30. he just takes a break and settle down with the good girl because a hoe can't give him the stability the good girl will give him when it comes to marriage and kids. But once he has the family he is back to the hoe. A hoe is like a partner in a journey for a man and not a destination. Especially after 40 when men are in their financial prime they go wild again.
Thats disgusting, but you are right this is the true nature of men. Do you think it applies for you too
I am still young so I didn't have much affairs. But i have seen my father acting this way and other older men around me. I like to think i will not be like them. But i dont know if my instinct will lead me Some day to act this way. At least i will try to act better because i know how painful this can be from what I have seen my mother going through
The woman in that pic does absolutely nothing for me. The type woman (hoe) you are talking about is looking to attract quantity over quality. And that ain’t my type of woman. You’re young. And you’re too influenced by the ‘influencers’ to know that plenty of men out there, even in your age bracket, are not interested in the hoes. But these days, most young men have a hard enough time finding a decent woman. Because most of the women are trying to be the next Kardashian.
Understanding what the Men you like want is definitely a part of it. I just don't think that means being a hoe or dressing like one. All that will get you is pumped and dumped. Men like women that are pretty no doubt about that but if you dress in a way that shows off your assets without being so forward and have the right attitude charm etc... men will be lining up.
Huh... that makes 2 of us, just opposite genders. I was thinking of becoming a smug, smirking metrosexual fuckboy who wears t shirts 3 sizes too small and has floppy hair... or becoming a deadbeat "real n**a" who spends my days leeching off my baby mamas, buying 2 for 99 cent blunt wraps at the corner store and tells everyone what a gangsta I am. You do your part, I'll do mine. Deal?🤔
Don’t do that.
Whatever you do, don’t change for these men. If a guy can respect and love you for being modest, he is not the one. He is for the streets.
My friends in my early 20s that would tell me that men like when girls act bitchy and so they would act bitchy are still single. They would have a lot of guys like them initially but never want to get serious.
Men want hoes for sex only. Good girls get commitment. Turning yourself into a hoe will get you and a lot dicks but nothing else. You have to be attractive, but the stupid nails and shit isn't going to help you.
"I started buying shorter skirts, more colorful make up, lifting bras, and stupid nail stuff. Apparently, that's what men like."
Just be careful about what kind of men you attract with those things.
Boys go for that.
Men look for substance.
Best advice, look in better quality places. You don't get prime rib at McDonald's.
Maybe it's your feeling of superiority to others that is putting them off. It's not attractive. I would never hang with anyone, man or woman, who use derogatory terms like "slut".
It's because of fucking feminism. Feminism teaches women to be superior to men instead of teaching them how to be feminine. Men are scared because when they approach women, they'll be labeled as creeps or pervs. And nowadays, women want dudes who are better than them in every way like money wise, confidence wise, and height. To you, I say don't become a hoe. Stay true to what makes you feminine and a good person.
Because hoes are easy? "Hey, uuum... ummm" "You had me at 'suck', baby. <3"
to my knowledge... hopefully I'm wrong?
I don't go for anyone anymore. I dated a girl once. She wasn't slutty. She was probably the nicest girl I have ever known. Maybe I wasn't good enough. In the end were just strangers.
To answer your question, I guess it's easier to get over someone for whom you only had sexual attraction and little to none emotional attachment. So if in the end I'm gonna lose someone anyway, I'd rather lose someone who does not mean much to me
hoes are there for easy sex and recreation, they aren't taken seriously in a relationship except by male feminists who don't get hoes anyway
I think that the same as why girls tend to go with "bad guys" maybe they are more open to the other sex and extroverted... I dont really know because in my social circle no one has gone with a "hoe"... 😬
the feeling is mutual, why women like getting their heart broken by the douches, then there's us, the spectators 😂
what? 😂
am not im a king 🙂👑
you know that even tho i know rn that you are trying to be a needle in my boot, you look like you are flirting, let that backfire sink in 😂😂
i was just trying to make you regret your choice of words, dont get your hopes up and i dodged that, in your mind you hit me like that 😂
i was joking bro dont take it personal 😂
and yes i could, i can detect the slaps, its a new skill unlocked 😏😎
ooh i see then ill make sure not to joke that way again, foreal mybad lol
and no its not cheating, i earned this skill and you acting like trying sneak attack someone isn't cheating, if anything its more cheating than my cheating 😂
thats not a stategy, thats a finesse, stop finessing 😂
then you say i need jesus, how dare you finesse an innocent little soul such as myself 😇😔
how dare you bully me
😭😭😭😏😭😭😭
lies, how dare you lie to the innocent soul, corruption is you masterpiece 😭
im not sure you even believed that lie 😂
another lie, you are just full of them today aren't you 🤔🤣
there's another, how dare you 🙂
Well , it would be nice to get an update on your outcome and the extra attention given? or otherwise?
Your premise is incorrect which is the biggest cause for your confusion. Women never look internally at the problem so they are always forced to rationalize a reason to make someone else the issue.
The decent ones don't, it's just women can't see those guys and only chase after the fuckboys.
Are you really okay with sacrificing who you really are for some instant gratification? You want to be someone else for some attention…. Some attention seeking whore, that is what you want to be? Poof…. Now there you are….
Bcoz they know the art of dating, love and sex. They know the strengths and weakness of men. They know how to treat men, seduce men and trap them so that they can take advantage. You know rude and arrogant women don't get laid easily.
Because most of these women do what the "normal, caring, loving" girlfriends/wives won't do in bed (like anal, foot fetish, etc.) These girls satisfy a man's sexual needs, so he doesn't have to turn into porn clips to see it
Trashy men go after hoes and they are usually obvious about it.
But are the h0e types happy? Are the f-boys they’re dating happy?
But they prefer to be miserable together. I know i can make him happy but he chose the h0e
@aransomgirlbruh, Maybe it just isn’t meant to be? You deserve a guy who chooses you the first time.
For a quick fck. They are temporary pleasure. You really want to be that?
Don't become that way. It is very empty. I was promiscuous when I was younger and it is my life's biggest regret.
How did you change
I just realized it was a waste of time, energy, and really my soul, to use others like I was doing. I had to go cold turkey just before my 21st birthday. I know I am better person now, but it is a burden that never really leaves me. I don't wish that for you or anyone else.
cause men wanna fuck and hoes make themself available. but you will find that the hoe is not the girl he's gonna stay with long term tho.
Same reason as why street fundraising is a thing. Being proactive gets results.
You don't have to change your appearance or be slutty for more than 30 seconds.
1) are you hot?
cause if you are
you wouldn't have a problem
2) your standards are to high
and you can't compete with the hotter girls
3) lower your standards if the answer is NO good luck
There's two girls. One is hot.
Which do you pick? The hot one, we don't know anything else about ya.
Because they are easy access to sex. Good men go for good women:)
Bc they the fun ones, we like hoes but don't wife them.
That outfit is banging. Anyways, hoes give out sex without much restraints.
Id never! No thank you. High maintenance and fake looking.
A lot of guys are shallow
Thats true sis. We should hit and move on, they deserve basic shallow h0es
Totally
Absolutely fine
because they know they will get some.
start by not calling women hoes
I don’t want a h0e! I want a lady!
In my city. I would just walk pass them 😄
Because they want sex
they know how to throw it back like its 99
no. guy slike HOT girls. be hotter.
I didn’t when I was single
I don't like hoes
All that stuff doesn’t make u a hoe
Because ho's are easy lays.
Just remember looks dont last forever
Not real men?
Easy casual sex
LMAO
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