Why do guys really manspread?

[UglyestGuyEver]

I came across a comment on YouTube lately from a girl about manspreading... She basically just said it's disgusting and unacceptable behaviour... And that even if it's more comfortable for guys to manspread they jus shouldn't do it...

Wtf? I mean... I don't know about y'all guys.. but when I sit like a girl.. I could do that fine without my balls hurting at all... I jus don't have massive balls... But I jus don't really wanna sit like a girl for 1 reason: it's feminine... When I see a guy sitting like a girl with legs closed I think he looks kinda gay and feminine... And I don't want to look gay or feminine.

Why should I sit like a girl and adopt feminine behaviours just so you "let's make everyone gender neutral" snowflakes can be happy?

If your gonna be like that then I'm gonna say you girls must also adopt some masculine behaviours just so your gender neutral club can be happy.. instead of wearing makeup and making yourselfs look pretty... Why don't you just wear no make up and shave all your hair off and go to the gym?

Anyway.. now that my rant's out of the way... Why do you think men actually man spread?
Does it really squash the balls? Or do you just sit like that because it's a natural male instinct to sit that way like me / and feel less girly to sit that way?

[dantetheexplorer]

Generally, when people refer to "man-spreading" it means you're cutting into somebody else's personal space. No one's going to decapitate you if you spread your legs but keep well inside your personal space. Some men are stupid and say "But what's my personal space?" You don't have to be a rocket scientist to figure out what is an appropriate personal space when you're sitting on a train, a plane, a bus. You have the dimensions of the seat to work that out, for goodness' sake.

The moment you leg invades into somebody else's personal space on public transport, THAT's when you're manspreading.

I feel like there's a lot of men that seem to be making this an issue when it's really more an issue of them lacking commonsense. No one gives a rat's ass if you spread your legs on public transport - just make sure you don't cross over into another person's private space.

Do you want to know the REAL reason why men manspread in public? It's because men have never been taught that they should take up less space. Being feminine is all about being smaller than a man, taking up less space, in order to be feminine. Being masculine, is almost always defined as being the opposite of feminine. In this case, the need to take up as much space as possible, usually due to them having NO IDEA AT ALL that they're invading into the space of others. Many men have this complete lack of self-awareness. It usually happens when you're on top of the power pyramid - when you're on top, you are more likely to have no idea what people below you on the pyramid face.

It's ironic, because the ones who say sexism doesn't exist anymore are almost always men. And the ones who say racism doesn't exist anymore are almost always white people.

So, use a bit of that noggin' and just apply commonsense and a base level of decency when you're in the public sphere and you'll be fine.

Just be considerate to other people, and everyone wins.

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[Muhammad1999]

If you have big dick and big balls you should always manspread , otherwise it's uncomfortable as hell 😂

[UglyestGuyEver]

Lolol

[Goodwifie]

I remember being squished in between two guys man spreading on the train, worst thing is if they were trying to read a massive newspaper and having it shoved in my face.

[UglyestGuyEver]

Yea, I don't get why some guys spread so far apart like that... They must have gigantic balls... I only have like the slightest gap lol

[markscott]

Good: When a man spreads real wide, it's not because his balls need that much space for comfort, he's just being selfish and taking up more than his space. A man only needs to spread his legs some, to not have too enough pressure off his balls, and to let them move some, along with his dick. Balls do get uncomfortable if not given some space, and not allowed to move. And his dick may need some space too, as it can get caught in very uncomfortable positions in clothing. It happens much more easily than for girls, who don't have genitals hanging out.

[Anonymous]

I just hope you guys don’t complain when men and women stare at your dick.

[UglyestGuyEver]

It's fine, that's not possible unless you're wearing shorts (I never do)

Or have a huge package that shows through your trousers (that I also don't have) lol

[Opinion Owner]

What are you talking about? People will stare there either way. Most shorts, pants, and sweatpants allow people to see the print.

[UglyestGuyEver]

Oh lolz, I never wear any pants like that like sweatpants... I wear jeans so you can't see any print at all.. I never catch anyone looking anyway, I'd be surprised if anyone did with my unnatractive ass lol, that would be like a compliment to me 😊

[Opinion Owner]

You can definitely still see it in jeans if it’s a little hard and sure just don’t complain when a guy is staring there as well 👌

[UglyestGuyEver]

No guys will stare there lol

[UglyestGuyEver]

I won't mind if one does tho tbh, aslong as he doesn't try to in appropriately touch me or anything, let him feast his little gay eyes lol

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah they will which is what you are not getting for some reason. Plus ok

[UglyestGuyEver]

They will what?

[OldSchool_Metalhead]

They manspread cause they got their dick n stuff down there.

[UglyestGuyEver]

Oh lol

[markscott]

There are two types of manspreading. 1. Where the man spreads his legs some, to keep his balls comfortable. I do that a lot, as to keep my legs together is uncomfortable, particularly for my balls. 2. Where a guy manspreads to show off his balls and dick, and/or to show domination. Usually this type of manspreading is at least somewhat exaggerating the width that the legs need to be apart to be comfortable. Some of the issues involved here are the clear differences in male and female anatomy. Women have proportionally wider hips, and no genitalia of size hanging from around their crotch area. Guys have proportionally narrower hips, but have more to keep from being squeezed. (balls and cock) It's entirely believable that the anatomical differences in men, make is necessary for them to have their legs farther apart to have the same degree of comfort as women.

[UglyestGuyEver]

Oh lol, I don't do it for either of those reasons.. I jus do it cos when I was like 3 or 4 I learnt that it's a masculine behaviour and only girls sit with closed legs... So now I jus sort of do it without even being conscious about it... It's just sort of like some male trait that was drilled into my head

[markscott]

Uglyestguyever: It's likely that you learned to sit that way as a child, copying men, when you balls were still small enough not to matter what you were wearing. As a teen and adult, likely, you are more comfortable, simply because you sit that way, even without realizing it. Of course, I'm talking about the comfort bases manspreading, no the exaggerated kind, where a guy spreads his legs out like he needs to air his balls and show them to the world.

[UglyestGuyEver]

Oh, I see.. yeah.. lol

[SkipStop]

Those are just a group of feminists aka misandrists who keep making up sh*t about guys. If you study biology, you know why it happens. And it's not something that guys do on purpose. It just happens because we got three things sticking out between our legs while girls got nothing. You wanna talk about spreading and taking more space? What about the girls who cross their legs wide and far? Womanspreading is a thing. There have been times when I'm on the train and there's this woman sitting with her legs crossed blocking the path.

[xTom98]

For me it really does feel uncomfortable if I put my legs together/ if I cross them. I’d say guys who have a bigger package to worry about have this problem in general, it’s not unusual that you feel really uncomfortable when sitting, sometimes it even really hurts doing so. Man spreading is just a inconsiderate term in my opinion, it really does help releasing tension from that area and makes it less painful.

[UglyestGuyEver]

Oh, really? My tiney balls just sort of levitate on top of my legs when I close them lol, so I can do it with no pain at all lol

[xTom98]

Its not just the balls that hurt, since the dick is usually inside one leg of the pants and when you cross your legs wrongly or squeeze them together it really fuckin hurts 😂

[UglyestGuyEver]

Oh lol haha 😀

[tartaarsaus]

I think sitting like most guys is fine, but once does not have to spread their legs on public transport as if it's the British empire. That's asshole behaviour. Keep it reasonable, and I'm totally fine with it

[UglyestGuyEver]

I'm not talking a metre wide here lol, I'm only talking a slight gap cos I don't wanna sit all feminine like

[BeMuse]

Tough shit. Periods are disgusting, tell her to stop that and she just shouldn't do it.

[UglyestGuyEver]

Word.. lol

[Anonymous]

Humanity in 2019.. girls telling guys how they should sit and guys planning out how to sit in a way that doesn't revea.. I mean look like he's gay.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

When feminists explain manspreading, they over exaggerate it that's why. Next up. Why do girls really use the extra seats for their bags?

[name_is_eric]

I find the term "manspread" offensive.

[UglyestGuyEver]

Same lol