How long should a guy wait before asking a woman to be exclusive/in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

I don't know but I gotta know this guy for a bunch of months or so. Before I even know him..
Takes a while to know someone and if I don’t know who he is, why would I be with him and allow him in my life.

[DizzyDesii]

The kiss at the end of the date is enough to tell me if i want to be official with someone or not. I don't know if it works the same for other women or guys tho

[Sanser]

Same, im very simple with this, if she is not a one night stand/ hook up or something like that I would ask about it in that moment

[Sanser]

But it really depends on the bond that you feel... maybe its too soon

[DizzyDesii]

@Sanser I’m not into ONS nor hookups so thats already off the table. If neither of us go for the kiss, thats very telling as well. I won’t kiss someone I’m not into. And i’ll reject a kiss from someone I’m not into

[DizzyDesii]

Thanks for mho asker

[coachTanthony]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/JV-m9bJTrh8

Get the digits first ha

[AviatorTom]

There's no set time. He should ask when he's ready to be exclusive and he's pretty sure she's also ready.

[OlderAndWiser]

You should wait until you are fairly certain that her answer will be "yes."

[Truthatanycost]

However long it takes for her to demonstrate she is worthy of his time, attention, loyalty, intimacy, company, emotional support and comfort. Regardless of whether you want children or not, ask yourself whether this woman is worthy of being the mother of them. Men are too desperate, too easy... they have been brainwashed to forget their value and this has been replaced with the mind of a simp that places all females and sex on a pedestal.

[KrakenAttackin]

Bruh... You are never the only one in her life. Her DM's are full, her Insta is filled with thirst traps, she has a full friend zone/simp bench, she's not yours, it's just your turn. Monogamy with modern women is laughable. Just enjoy the ride and let it play out. When jumps to Chad, don't take it personally.

[LazerBean]

Do you have good reason to believe that you two are extremely compatible with each other and the likelihood of you breaking up is small.

[LazerBean]

Until*

[WanderingLoveWizard]

I don't know who disliked this, but it's good advice. Had to throw in a like for ya

[LazerBean]

Lol thanks

[WanderingLoveWizard]

👍👍

[Anemone978]

I personally would like to be exclusive fairly early, like as soon as the guy knows he likes me or else why are we seeing each other LOL
But who knows what these dumb hoes want these days..

[EricSummer]

Sometime between the first kiss and the first sex, and these two should never be at the same occasion.

This could be around the fourth date for my taste.

[Girlsontop]

Less Wait and More about bonding with them heavily and ensuring trust in each other, after that, make lots of memories and then you can ask

[Vegasrunner]

Tbh if you have to ask the woman to be in a relationship it's not going to work. If you're a man of value women will compete for the opportunity to be in a relationship with you.

[slatyb]

Typically women have asked me "Are you seeing anyone else?" before inviting me to bed.

[BigRed1987]

I’ve never had to ask. I think it’s best to just let things happen. If she’s really needing reassurance. I’m not sure that’s a good sign. I’d clarify but I have to go attend to my daughter

[Raaj4you]

Only if you ( guy) have a strong feeling that this girl / women is right for you. Don't mistake lust for love. Where there is true love there is no lust.

[Anonymous]

The guy should not ask - but wait for the woman to ask to be be exclusive.

[Billlewis]

Exactly -- it's a woman's inherent right to be in an intimate relationship with any guy she wants, and her main guy should be 100% faithful to her at all times, even if she restricts him from having any penetrative sex whatsoever.

[Opinion Owner]

@Billlewis Sorry dude I don't mean that at all - the guy should not be chasing the relationship, it should be the woman chasing the relationship - If the guy does the chasing he's acting like a simp.

[Jltakk]

I guess after the first date? Not really saying this out of experience though.

[boggboss]

Until he feels comftble and thinks she does

[andreasderjuengere]

As long as he can get through with it?

[Drumlin2001]

Not set time. Whenever it feels right

[Blueeyes81]

When you're sure she feels the same.

[In_Trance]

as long as it takes to feel comfortable

[strateguy632]

huh, first date!!

[WanderingLoveWizard]

2 or 3

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Years

[Anonymous]

Three dates?

[shades777]

50 years

[normandi]

she will never be