Is it unreasonable to ask a man to wait to be intimate with you until you’re in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

A man on a dating app told me it’s not reasonable to wait to have sex until you’re in an official relationship, and that you have to have sex before you fully commit to a relationship to know if you’re compatible. I want to wait until I’m in a relationship

[ɹǝʇʇɐɥpɐW]

I think he's looking for an easy hookup. It is totally reasonable to wait until you actually get to know each other. I'd want to have sex before marriage to know our sexual compatibility, sure, but I think it's totally reasonable to date and be exclusive for a good while, learning if our personalities and lifestyles are compatible before then.

[TheSpaceGnome]

No, thats a bare minimum expectation. Block him, he's trash.

[OlderAndWiser]

If he was interested in a relationship, he would wait. There's your sign!

[Lionman95]

No because you have because sex is very intimate so I think it's better to test out first if you can trust the other person. Secondly I don't think if two people are compatible or not isn't figured out in bed but in daily life.

[tzdc21]

If you hold out as a means of manipulation then yeah it's messed up. So just be careful with how you execute it.

[dreamstar72]

Wait it improves the chances and quality of the relationship in lasting

[Lynn723]

If you aren't comfortable then you shouldn't do it. And any reasonable person wouldn't try and manipulate you to do anything you don't want to do.

[Anonymous]

Men like that should be disqualified imediately.

[Sparkie460]

No. Absolutely not