How do I stop being jealous of my boyfriends brothers new girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

I’m honestly a very jealous person (ik it’s bad) but my boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 years and his brother got a new girlfriend about a month or two ago and she is so much prettier than me… She also knows how to cook and my boyfriend does all the cooking. He also has a little brother that seems to be obsessed with her and no longer even bothers to talk to me when she is there. I don't know i just feel like i’m old news and she is all shiny and new so i’m being pushed to the side. I also get nervous that my boyfriend is comparing that she cooks for his brother and i don’t cook for him even though when i asked him he said he doesn’t care and enjoys cooking for me. I over think a lot and compare myself to other things to much. how do i stop this? is it normal? please help

[hahahmm]

All relationships, where people didn't commit to being together forever are doomed to fail eventually. One or both people in the relationship are still on the market and open to upgrading. You feel insecure because you did not get a more secure relationship.

Of course it takes more effort to be considered fiance & wife material than to be considered a girlfriend.

Unless you're one of those people who never want to get married, think about it from that angle.

[ZackBan]

You been riding with the same dude for half a decade and STILL worry about other people? Damn.

At this point unless one of you really messes up and cheats or something equally bad you're good sister. He's yours.

[ElyJackson]

That’s your bf’s bro girlfriend so you have nothing to worry about. Get to know her, im sure she's nice. The other brother who is “obsessed” with her it most likely is cause she’s new to the family. Once things set in it will be different.

[CoolCatMar1]

Tbh even if he wasn't his brother but a friend with a new girlfriend I don't think she should be jealous or care. Not all men want to fuck their friends nor date them

[CoolCatMar1]

Female friends

[rukus88]

@CoolCatMar1 That is not true. unless their are extenuating circumstances. Like if he is gay

[boggboss]

No its not normal clearly u need therapy or professional help as your mental state sounds like it's on life support

[DarkWinterNights]

You aren’t dating her, or either of your BF’s brothers. Focus on you and yours, and don’t worry about her. Maybe improve your cooking skills?

[mommymommymommy]

Start being secure?

Jealousy will only push your boyfriend further away

Unless that's what youd want?

[jahaims]

Improve yourself. You are jealous because you don't like yourself.

[Anonymous]

go with that feeling because if you can't cook and only provide looks which fade overtime what good use are you to him or to any guy?

[In_Trance]

therapy