Are women worth trying to date in 2023?

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I feel like there's more headaches involved rather than having a good time around them. Maybe im the problem who knows

CrazyKittyStyx · Accepted Answer

Hey man, I’m a woman and I think dating sucks now too! People are way too shallow, seems like all women want are rich, perfect men and all guys want are hot, perfect women, EVERYONE is disposable, even when you’re just trying to have fun. It’s all twisted!

And trust me men are just as complicated. Over the last few years I’ve been repeatedly breadcrumbed, especially one arsehole who would sucker me back in EVERY time (cos I’m an idiot 🙄), just because it gave them an ego boost! Hated on by one guy I worked with because he, apparently, apparently really liked me but I was in a LTR so he took it out on me. Used by a fuck boy and most recently ghosted by a guy who I thought was on the same page - we’d both been honest and straight forward about our lives, we just wanted to have some fun, not a serious relationship etc. But then apparently he couldn’t be arsed to tell me when he changed his mind…

HOWEVER! I do think part of it is my fault - I get involved with these guys after all. I probably have some issues with emotionally unavailable men, probably due to low self esteem blah, blah, blah! Maybe you’re attracted to the wrong girls, for the wrong reasons or looking in the wrong places? But don’t give up on all of us!

It’s people that suck, not a gender.

kylee2437 · Accepted Answer

If you have to ask this question, then chances are you want to date but like everyone else said, your attitude is an issue

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Are we talking the U. S? Because the only guys I know that I've been around who DONT feel this way? Are fuckboys, pimps, dope dealers and older well off guys. That's just the culture here. I used to go to Tamaulipas Mexico bi monthly to a small town there, and the females there are NOTHING like the U. S. Their families aren't dysfunctional either. Different society. Here, they reward junkies and dealers. There... try that... and you won't even have time to regret it.😏It's just the culture here, it's not you.

inhua · Accepted Answer

statistically no. scoring 1 out of 10000 tries is not success. think about all the time, energy, resources and finances being spent and potentially wasted on false hope

it's better to level up, reach a certain standard of safety and let them come to you instead though that's easier said than done. more time, energy, resources and finances invested in yourself and less time, energy, resources and finances needed for filtering out the ones you don't want

provokeesmokee · Answer

Yeah, you're the problem.

If you think your small number of experiences are a predictor of an entire demographic in a specific year, you need therapy.

It sounds like you're having troubles deeper than you're able to solve on your own.

It's ok to ask a professional for help. There's good male therapists out there you can work with. Invest in yourself, first of all.

JoshMa · Answer

I wouldn't say 2023 id say this generation is what u mean and I'd almost agree its harder to date bro as almost everyone wants what others have and its all unrealistic to be a stand out guy unless ur rich and successful. There are great girls out there so i dont want to label them all as difficult, id keep on trying God has better ideas for us and we got to let him do his thing 🙏♥️

Billlewis · Answer

I'm not trying to date women so much as I'm attempting to make myself useful to them.

richardcory · Answer

Depends on the person. If you aren't enjoying dating, then no reason to continue

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

I can imagine someone asking this question back in 234 BC as well.

Anonymous · Answer

With an attitude like that, you indeed are the problem.

sheikalana · Answer

Why don't you start dating men then if women are too much of a trouble for you?

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Boundaries, man. You just have to set boundaries. That's the secret to having fun with dating.

slatyb · Answer

Some definitely are. Maybe it is you, or maybe you are looking for love in all the wrong places.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know you personally so either you're the problem or they're the problem. Maybe they're bad people? But you chose them... Maybe you're a bad person and don't know it?

Anonymous · Answer

American women, probably not. Non-first world (central or South American for example), absolutely. You will have a far better chance with them.

oxygenxx2 · Answer

you are biased. if you stop being biased, you find the right person

Boomchakalaca · Answer

I think its u

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

LOL NO DEFINITELY NOT

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