What makes a man attractive to you?

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What are some of the physical things that make a man attractive and appealing to you , in general? And how important are looks of a man for you while considering him for dating/relationship?

ZXCwWRQWz · Accepted Answer

Mostly when he can charm the entire room.

You can tell who it is every time you sit in a small bar and there's one guy who every woman wants to talk with (and even guys too, since he's so charming and interesting). I'm admittedly rarely that one.

Doesn't have so much to do with looks in my experience as charisma. I got one who is often like that and he's a middle-aged guy with a beer belly in his 40s with a "LOVE" tattoo spelled on one hand and "PEACE" on the other and he doesn't even have a proper home; he lives on a shack on the beach without even a functional toilet or shower and only works a little bit when he completely runs out of money and only cares mostly about surfing.

Despite all this, he's one of those guys who can enter a small bar and still end up charming the entire crowd; even guys like me are victims to his charm since he's so funny and fun to talk to.

nolabels · Accepted Answer

I imagine that you're looking for answers from girls, but I'm going to chime in as a guy.

I don't know. It's a new sensation for me.

In recent years, I've come to fantasize about having sex with men, but with no kissing or romance. Period.

Frotting is my preferred fantasy of male-to-male sex.

Last night I had a dream where I was seated naked in a lounge chair at a small party of mostly naked men and women. What I'll describe as a pretty hot naked guy came up to me, handed me a drink, then bent down and kissed me. In the dream, I was totally into the kiss. That's never happened to me before. He wasn't an Adonis. He was just a guy. But when he bent over to kiss me, I melted. It was a dream, though, not real life.

Today I'm finding myself more attracted to some men more than ever.

What the hell is going on with me?

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

Altruism and acceptance are two qualities I value in a guy. I also like a guy that likes to solve problems such as fixing a car or broken sink or doing his own repairs instead of hiring professional help and I love guys who do wood working or sculpting or playing guitar.

Pinay_ako · Accepted Answer

He has to smell good. Idc if he looks like Thor or Henry Cavill, if he stinks, it would be an automatic buzzkill  If he’s nice  He has strong hands  Smiling eyes when he talks  Funny and smart  a guy who can sing or dance omg 😱

Reem12345reem · Answer

his beard , his height , his body shape (some men don't have the body shape im attracted to) , his strength , and ofc his hair and face and Im more attracted to guys with a masculine face yet sweet eyes and smile , "aggressive" faces are not for me but depends sometimes it's hot , the way he represents himself (hygiene and clothes)

and the initial attraction is from his looks but then it doesn't matter as long as he's healthy and representable , for personality , his kindness and sweetness is important , doesn't judge people , has self control , and just focuses on becoming better and productive and successful

Dinklex3 · Answer

Face, arms, face, hands, face, smile, face, back, face, waist, face, muscles. Looks are equally as important as personality in a relationship.

crystalline0909 · Answer

A man who is competent (not faking confidence) someone who is not afraid to take accountability of his actions and be responsible. Who has over his sex craving phase. Who has high EQ along with IQ. Someone's who feels enough being with just one women. Doesn't feel the need of emotional validation by whoring around different booty calls.

Boomchakalaca · Answer

Gotta be at least an 7/8 blue collar jobs r hot af as long as he isn't those dooshie skinny truck squat boys. In college or in a job. Takes care of himself (workout and eats healthy) gotta dress somewhat decent and not a clown. Religious is a plus, but i couldnt be bothered. As long as he dosent force it on me. Does manly qualities (know how to fix things)

inhua · Answer

standing over 6 feet tall, wide broad shoulders, 6 pack abs, large pecs, chiseled jawline, symmetrical face with golden ratio, high cheekbones, thick neck, prominent brow ridge, full set of hair, large hands, large forearms etc.

Robert Downey Jr is the bare minimum level to be considered attractive

Chris Hemsworth or Henry Cavill would be the ideal

MissBoogus · Answer

I’ll basically just describe my boyfriend. Big dick, at least 6’+, white, coloured eyes (something other then brown), chiseled jaw, muscular (or fat is good too lol), and of course a nice caring personality

Nikki1989 · Answer

Fun personality, charm, kindness, intellectual.

Jazzy54 · Answer

A nice smile and, if he’s a brunette, that’s a bonus. As long as I’m attracted to him, that’s all that matters. 😊

EmmaMary · Answer

Personality, Intelligence, Hygiene and overall Appearance.

DutchessDahlia · Answer

When he is just as freaky as me and isn’t afraid to get down wherever. I’m in to smooth talkers. If you can turn me on just by talking to me I’m done. ✔️

Anonymous · Answer

When a guy has an athletic look to him doesn't mean he has to look like a gym rat, height is a bonus, strong jawline. this is all physical stuff personally is way more important to me

sheikalana · Answer

His height, strong features, fit body, good sense of style.

Anonymous · Answer

Looks aren’t overly important. As long as he’s nice to me and I’m nice to him, equally. If that’s in place, then I’ll begin to admire his body more! He has to be someone I can get along with.

Anonymous · Answer

If he's athletic and he's passionate about a sport.

Anonymous · Answer

😍🥰🔥

Anonymous · Answer

A man who has money.  Anything else is nonsense.

Hinaaaaa · Answer

When he is Fictional 😂🤣

Christoff92 · Answer

Depending on his personal traits.

Emmy87 · Answer

Being masculine

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