So I understand your side but also her side too. Take this as advice and not offense: a lot of guys will do what you did after asking her "Good birthday?" They'll just keep sending messages because they didn't get a response the first time and they think they're trying to stay interesting or talkative, which really just turns a woman off and does annoy her. Don't oversell yourself.
Also by you saying "I hope I'm not being annoying. Just looking for connections really," it makes you look lonely and like you hardly ever get to talk to anybody, let alone a female. And this can make a woman pull away and feel like you're inexperienced and don't have much social interaction.
But there is one caveat: she did say you were annoying as fuck. This is a good thing that she even cared to communicate that. Most women who think a guy is annoying her with peppered texts will just ghost the guy or block him without notice. I don't know how the rest of the messages went, if there were anymore, if she did block you after saying you were annoying or not, but definitely take this as a learning opportunity and to do better with texting.
Who is this person and how well do you know her? Is she a longtime personal friend? If she isn't, I don't think joking about her breasts is appropriate in any case.
She wasn't rude. I'm shocked you'd make such a comment about someone's body as a "joke." And if someone calls you "annoying" doesn't sound like they're interested in talking to you, period.
But if someone doesn t reply and you badger and small talk, that is annoying, If she hasn't regularly contacted you, sounds like a lack of interest, Let it go,
That aged female is monstrous nowadays. Based on your age, I would have guessed your answer would be older than that. But based on nastiness in the female gender... 22 is a monster. I'll qualify that by saying "not all", but many. I've never seen such entitlement and cockiness from females.
Why did you apologize? When she said "you're annoying as f***". I would have responded "And you have a mouth like a dirty pirate hooker". And then probably leave her on read.
If she blocks you, fine. Clearly she didn't want to talk to you. If she laughs and is all of a sudden interested then she's trash and should be left in the streets. Never apologize unless you TRULY feel you overstepped your bounds. She needed to get checked for that.
Well, you keep messaging and sending unsolicited messages when the other person is clearly not interested in interacting with you no wonder why they replied the way they did. You're the one being rude here.
It wasn't because you asked about her birthday, it was that you didn't even wait to see if she would answer that. You just went on with more texts that were just annoying.
So then you shouldn't have said anything more. Give her radio silence just like what she gave you. Don't keep messaging in the hopes that one of them will be the golden arrow to get you a response. If a woman is ghosting you or leaving you on Read, that's not a good person you even want to keep corresponding with. Just drop her.
