Was this rude to say?

[Anonymous]

I told my mom's cousin who's 67 for her bday that I wish her a very long life she seemed very surprised.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Only if she's some professional butt-hurt attention whore. That's been a perfectly common phrase for decades at least. No reason any rational person would be taken aback.

[Lliam]

It's a very common thing to say. Not rude at all.
Was it rude for Vulcans to say "Live long and prosper"?

[MikeTheBartender]

No, she should be grateful to have a good friend

[MementoMori777]

no but i wouldn't be surprised if people take that offensive now, it wasn't always offensive you know 😂

[Sexiestjohnson]

Maybe she is jet lagged at this point. Some people get tired quickly.

[Surely]

No it wasn’t rude. But I usually add “Healthy”. For the Long and Healthy Life!
Since I don’t want to be a burden on someone nor bed ridden.

[MrsFireCrackerBoshaw]

Huh? Not at all rude.

[Anpu23]

No, just unusual.

[Mansearching]

Not rude at all. Weird.

[Jerre]

I don’t think it was rude

[riverrat3]

Not rude

[Anonymous]

no not rude