Is this rude to say?

[Anonymous]

I bought my family member a care package of goodies and I asked if she liked it and she said she didn’t remember. I took my time out to choose cute gifts and she said she doesn’t care or remember. Am I wrong to feel offended?

[Guy13]

Yeah, she is pretty self-absorbed. Hold no grudges, be nice, and do not gift her again. She probably did not mean too and thought she was being honest. She is what she is.

[HateyouxD]

Not at all

[HateyouxD]

It shows a lack of caring for what you did for her. It shows she's not great full or appreciative. Don't waste your time next time. Don't go our of your way for her no more

[Asker]

I’m not. It’s Weird because she comes to my house trying to take things that are mine yet I give her gifts.

[HateyouxD]

She likes what you have... it's almost like she's picking and choosing from a store lol. Why not ask what she wants instead of assuming... that's if you feel the need to get her gifts.. but she doesn't seem worth it. Sounds a bit jealous and because you are like a mall to her she's taking advantage or being super disgusting. Like I don't like it/her

[Asker]

I don’t like her either but my mom is forcing me to be nice.

[HateyouxD]

Stand up for yourself. I'd secretly tell your family member not to touch shit🤷🏾‍♀️ the fuck is your mom going to do about it lol

[Asker]

I snacked my phone from her because I didn’t want her to see my messages. My mom thinks I’m being mean? I knew she would start to ask for my old iPhone and I don’t want to give up to her. She comes in my room and touches everything.

[HateyouxD]

Hope it in your pillow case.

[HateyouxD]

Hide****

[Asker]

Good idea lol, but I’m pointed at as the bad guy for putting her in her place. I don’t enjoy this persons attitude or company. Yes, we were close years ago and now we have different interests and personalities and it seems she doesn’t wish me well or love me. My mom keeps saying how much she loves me and I dont see it or feel it at all.

[HateyouxD]

Tell her that