Guys, are you more likely to fall in love with a woman who clearly is infatuated/obsessed with you or a woman who plays hard to get?

[Anonymous]

[Lionman95]

I would say neither. Because hard to get isn´t always good since that could lead to situations where guys can´t differentiate between rejection and playing hard to get.
But at the same time a woman being obsessed with me is sometimes also a turn-off especially if she is and I´m not.
I would say it´s better if a woman shows a slight interest me like dropping a compliment about I do from time to time or spending time with me in different activities rather than her being obsessed.

[Asker]

Thank you for the wonderful explanation!

[Lionman95]

You're welcome. I'm glad it helped you.

[ChiTown33]

I dunno neither one sounds very healthy. I don't like women who play hard to get. But infatuated/obsessed sounds like she's not all there mentally. I'd much rather a woman like me and enjoy my company then a woman who wants to cut my skin off and wear it as a coat to feel closer to me. Do you see the distinction?😂

[stepyo99]

Obviously, it still depends on my feelings towards her, but I would only consider the woman who expresses interest in me as well.

When I was younger, I was given all kinds of terrible advice about "playing hard to get" in the past and maybe that used to be a thing, but my observation has been that "playing hard to get" either means she's not interested (but you just got to win her over, bro!) or she's nuts. Either way, I want to avoid that nonsense and just pursue relationships with women who also want one with me.

[Billlewis]

Number one, there's no way I could fall in love with a woman who thinks I'm awesome, but if she won't give me the time of day, I'll probably not only fall in love with her, I'll fall at her feet, too.

[Asker]

Okay I see so you prefer if she acts disinterested/plays hard to get

[Billlewis]

Absolutely. In fact, if I know she regards me as weak, worthless and pathetic, it's a virtual certainty that she'll have me on my knees and begging for her to let me kiss her ass... lol

[RoosterBreast]

People like @Billlewis are the exception, he's a cuck, you're probably not interested in attra ting cucks, are you?
Though, even cucks can be drawn to women who show care.

And, @asker, you must've noticed that the main girl behavior which men complain about, is not being direct enough.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

I'm only 28, and I'm already too old and tired for games.
I'll take the obsessed weirdo over little Miss "hard to get" any day

[ProbablyClueless]

I prefer it when women express their interest.

The reality is that modern women don't have any idea how to properly flirt and play hard to get, so it's better to just not even try.

[exitseven]

The one that does not play stupid games like playing hard to get.

[Pohjolan]

The former one by default.

I can take a hint if she plays hard to get.

[ButthurtGAGpeople1]

Don't play hard to get, play hard to forget

[Asker]

So you want her to show that she is obsessed/infatuated with you?

[ButthurtGAGpeople1]

Yeah

[BLP11520]

Not the hard to get one

[Asker]

So you want her to show that she is obsessed/infatuated with you?

[BLP11520]

Some, sure

[In_Trance]

not necessarily

[Asker]

Can u elaborate on that

[In_Trance]

obsession is not always attractive