So girls on all the dates you've been on what was the situations like on paying?

[RoosterJuniour56]

like did they pay is that something you prefer did that make you like em more is there any that asked to split is that a deal breaker or what do you think of that

[kylee2437]

A guy asking me out on a date and paying is a huge turn on. If a tab is super expensive, I will help chip in though because I don’t feel like a man should have to spend a crazy amount on me during the first date

[NuitBlanche]

The first time I find it polite when the man pays. Later it depends on who earns more. If the man earns more, he may invite from time to time. But if she earns more, the woman can also invite sometimes. You don't always have to go out to eat. You can also cook together and share the cost of shopping or alternate. Every second time he pays

[rachel776]

usually the guy pays and if he doesn't for whatever reason i'm ready to pay half or the whole thing

[Anonymous]

I let one guy pay once and it "you at least owe me some head", so I insisted on splitting it every time after. Never had that problem again.