Women, how often do you pay for dates or your own way on first dates?

[shades777]

I've heard that women that do pay will but won't go on a second date even though in 2023 women earn as much as men, why no second date?

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1 y

Right on 💪🏾

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1 y

A lot of interesting opinions on this topic, very perplexing indeed, thanks for sharing

[Bikotan]

I pay my part.

I’ve paid the whole tab if it’s my idea of going on a date or I’m the one who asked you out.

In my experience, men have griped about it from all directions. If I pay they feel “emasculated”, but if it’s their idea or asked me out then I’m gold digger.

so I pay my share from now on so there’s no “power grab” or expectations of any kind if on a date, whether with a guy or girl.

if he treats the wait staff poorly or rudely I order an expensive item, he agrees to pay, and then walk out on him.

[Kaamraj]

Not a woman but have been on dates with several women, and the answer is never. Some make the weak gesture of reaching for their wallets but it's all symbolic.

[Juxtapose]

If she's a type to expect me to pay, then she's getting McDonald's or a coffee.

[jennifer_bloom]

I don't expect the guy to pay for me unless it's a cup of coffee or tea. I always bring enough to pay for myself and also for the guy just in case the guy does not offer to pay or cannot afford to pay.

[Pinay_ako]

I always pay … but if he insists in paying for me, I’m buying dessert or coffee after

[JustMeL120]

Two possiblities

Either the women are using the dates for a free meal.

Or they want the man to show them that they are worthy of the mans money.

To all men just pay for the first date its only 20 pound. Is your date worth less to you than a packet of cigarette?

[DizzyDesii]

Every date no matter how long we’ve been official for, I will almost always decline his offer

[SaoirseS]

I paid either my own way or the whole tab on first dates many times when I was dating. Whether or not there was a second date had nothing to do with money. On subsequent dates we worked it out, either split the tab or take turns.

[MzAsh]

My rule has always been that I don’t pay on the first date if I’m asked and invited by the guy. And the guy was always happily willing to pay. Definitely have paid in long term relationships though and I’m happy to do that.

[TacosRAwesome]

I'm always willing to pay for what I have but I'm appreciative when they just pay and make no fuss about it.

[Anonymous]

Most women want the rights of men, the privilege of women, and the responsibility and accountability of neither.. Essentially children.

[Nikki1989]

I have paid many times.

[shades777]

Do you go on second dates if you paid or do you end it there?

[Nikki1989]

I have gone on many dates after that.

[shades777]

right on 💪🏾

[Deserter]

You getting me McDonald's tonight?

[mandyfire98]

Everytime. I always go dutch.

[SeriouslyFunny00]

I never did..

[Date_a_Snob]

I've paid a few times

[Anonymous]

Rarely

[Akam93]

I've never had..