If the girl is mature will you date her if she was 15+ younger?

[imanoverthinker]

yes

no

Updates

+1 y

i am asking in general not that i am that girl just that you don’t make assumptions

[normalice]

"mature for their age" is something that doesn't really mean anything. Even the willingness to date a guy (in my case) in his 40's screams of some unresolved childhood issues. To that end I'd be far more likely to adopt her than date her - and unless I win the lottery or something I have no interest in raising someone else's child.

That said if it was a post-apocalyptic situation or something, still no. She'd need to taste some independence before I'd consider co-dependence.

[imanoverthinker]

thank you for your point of view!

[NamerOfStars]

Well, she'd be under the legal age- but assuming I was a little older, or the gap a little smaller, and that wasn't the case, then I'd probably be willing to give it a try. I doubt it'd work out, but then, that's usually the case- and frankly, you need to beat the odds a little to hit it off with me anyway, and age usually isn't much of a factor to that.

[imanoverthinker]

thank you!

[Reem12345reem]

2 21 year old dudes wanted to date me , I dated one when i was 15

[imanoverthinker]

Nd how dod it go of u may ask?

[Anonymous]

Anybody over 18 should not be dating anyone under 18.

[imanoverthinker]

i was not asking in my situation, just in general

[Anonymous]

Maybe if I was 16. Age is tricky subject around your age. I remember when I was 21 a girl who was 17 asked me out and I turned her down because I felt a 4 year age gap was too big. If I could go back and do it again I wouldn't have been so rigid about this.

Like I say age is is tricky around your age. Don't this personal if a guy thinks you're too young. You got a lot of years and a lot of dates ahead of you.

[imanoverthinker]

thank you!:)

[Finchie40]

As long as she is of legal age of consent then yes , , if she is under legal age of consent I will tell her to wait until she is lol

[imanoverthinker]

good!

[Finchie40]

Age doesn’t really bother
Me when it comes to meeting a beautiful girl that I have great chemistry and connection with and her and I have things in common , Her age is the last thing I am thinking about , Now I feel pretty wise not to hit on a girl that is under legal age , but I have dated girls that were in their 20’s while in my 40’s etc. So again age really means shot to me as long as her and I our attractive Ed to each other and have amazing chemistry and connection , that’s all that really matters

[imanoverthinker]

great opinion thank you! i agree with you

[Drumlin2001]

If I were single and looking for something casual yes. If I were looking for serious relationship probably not. I'd assume most 25yr olds would want at least the potential for kids in future. I've had 2, that's all I'm having.

[MementoMori777]

nope thats illegal, i think, but this 15 year old girl should wait til a bit older to date anyways because dating as a young teen can be far more shallow and complicated anyways

[Anonymous]

I suppose I would be open to dating anyone of legal age, but they would have to be pretty extraordinary to hold my attention enough for a relationship.

[imanoverthinker]

thank you!

[slatyb]

Not if she was looking for a father for her children.

[blissinanarchy1]

If a grown man is willing to date you at your age he should be put to death. You can be “mature” as ever but the balance of power and experience is really uneven.

[imanoverthinker]

asking in general

[blissinanarchy1]

A pedophile would.

[Anonymous]

No, I'm an old man in my mid 20's like I pass for 30 and act like I'm 50

[Provingdatruth]

I can see that you’re 15 years old yourself. 15-15=0 Do you want to date a fetus? lol.

[imanoverthinker]

hahaha i wrote that a asked this in general not that that i am in that situation

[SnowedIn]

Yes, provided she's of legal age.

[imanoverthinker]

in general

[SnowedIn]

Yeah, totally. Again, though, with the caveat that the person in the hypothetical question in general is at least as old as the legal age wherever we are.

[imanoverthinker]

thank you for the opinion!

[SnowedIn]

You're welcome!

[Kelly6]

Yes if it’s legal

[Anonymous]

She is not mature she just wasted her youth now trying to make up for it

[Lookitsmadmax1994]

Yes if she's of legal age

[fonduegirl]

Uh no. I don't like jail.

[Luckycharms12]

You are 15 that' would be illgal

[imanoverthinker]

i was aking in general

[Luckycharms12]

A lot of the time no people are at different places in life

[imanoverthinker]

i don’t understand

[Luckycharms12]

Both will want and need different things with that much of a age difference. Probably wouldn't work

[imanoverthinker]

thank you for the opinion, i understand it now:)

[Luckycharms12]

No problem

[Aiko_E_Lara]

No. Thats against the law

[Aiko_E_Lara]

But if its legal, i still have to make some judgements first. Being 15 means you still has plenty of room for development.

[LiamJHayden]

Nope.

[riverrat3]

Age is just a number