What does it mean if your boyfriend says he is “neutral” towards you? Is there anything to do to change it?

[Anonymous]

[CantMissIt]

That's a horrible thing to say. He should be crazy wild over you. Neutral is how you feel when someone says "paper or plastic"

[Asker]

That’s what I said-that it was not a nice thing to say- I said I’m not even “neutral” about what color the wall is painted, let alone neutral towards a man I’m seeing. He said it’s not bad to be neutral but I think in this case it is. I really don’t know if there is anything to do to change because I’ve asked and all he said was for us to both be neutral towards each other which sounds so strange to me

[Anonymous]

He probably means he is neither attracted nor repulsed by your presence. You should move on, I'm sorry.

[Asker]

I think you’re right -I’m confused because he is always the one inviting me over or calling me but then he says he is “neutral” but maybe he is just bored and doesn’t care :/

[Anonymous]

Why would you want to?

All I can be is me. I would never continue with a woman who said that to me.