Will I have to pay for an escort?

[Anonymous]

No girls ever approach me and ask for my number

Im an average looking guy and sexually frustrated

Im too shy to talk to girls

No strangers ask for my number

[Finchie40]

The fact that you are shy is the reason you aren’t getting girls’ , for you to attract a girl, you have to have confidence in yourself, Most girl’s are attracted to a guy’s confidence and masculine energy , If you see a beautiful girl that catches your eye , approach her and say Hi it’s nice to meet you I am ( your name) I couldn’t resist introducing myself to you, Do you live around here? Just be yourself and don’t come off as too creepy or nervous or she will think you are a psycho lol Just treat her like you would treat your friends etc Always remember we aren’t mind readers we don’t walk around with signs flashing above our heads saying what we are into or what our current relationship status is , just be polite , if she is interested she will communicate back to you. One thing I learned in life is you just have to value yourself worth and don’t lack self esteem within yourself , you aren’t going to get every girl but your chances are better than not trying at all , it’s better to try than not try , the chances of you running into that girl again is very slim chance so it’s best to just go for it

[AviatorTom]

You don't HAVE to do anything. If you want to try an escort, go ahead.

At your age, I was shy too. But I eventually overcame it. Judt walk up to a girl you like and say Hi. Don't make a big deal of it, don't think you're asking her gir a date. Just talk to her.

[Fireguy17]

You will need to either try to find a way to overcome your shyness, or, possibly try one of the better on line dating sites, like it's just lunch, eharmony etc.
Not the hook up sites.
That way you can kind of get to know the other person a bit before you meet them.
That might help and it at least let's you let the other person know you are kind of shy.

[Anonymous]

Up to you man. Just remember you can pay an escort to pretend to love you, but she ain't ever going to love you.

If it makes you feel any better. Most the people you see around you pair bonded aren't happy. Most are just putting on and avt for thier partners. So you being single is actually more genuine than most relationships.

[Asker]

should i just ask girls for their numbers and talk to girls, instead of paying a prostitute.

[Asker]

i dont think i would ever pay a prostitute

[Opinion Owner]

I have a philosophy when it comes to women. I NEVER put anymore energy into a woman than she's willing to put into me.
Yes talk to women. You're under no obligation for anything else, nor is she. It ain't going to kill either of you to talk. KNOW and TRULY BELIEVE, NO ONE is BETTER than you. Or out of your league. They can think that if they like. But don't YOU ever think that. Never tolerate a woman's disrespect! Never CHASE a woman either. And always be ok even when alone. Because you are enough. A MAN does not NEED a woman in his life to be happy. It's ALWAYS better to be alone for the right reasons than in a relationship for the wrong ones.

[Asker]

i need a women in my life, or I will end up manipulating a girl for sex

[Opinion Owner]

No. You just THINK you need a woman in your life. You're treating women too much like a status symbol and not as a person. A person with thoughts, desires, feelings and aspirations. And to have a bad woman in your life or a woman who is a bad match for you is worse than not having any woman at all, trust me.

[Alex-Snow]

Dude I'm 18 and close 2 ur age. Give it some time. We had to go through some shit in school with COVID... remember? Things are just starting to get kinda normal. It is ok to be shy... girls will understand. Just be urself.

[Philyouup]

you have to get over yourself. yeah it’s a bitch when you are joe average. you have to do a lot of the leg work to show yourself off ans a good catch. sitting around ans waiting will get you nothing.

[Snakeyes7]

Don't bother. It'll probably feel very superficial and you're probably not going to get any fulfillment out of it.

[slatyb]

Get some counseling to reduce your social anxiety.