Despite trying both meeting men in person and matching men online, I'm still single and unable to find a long-term relationship. What can I do?

[TheSimFans]

So far, neither in-person meetings nor online dating have led to a long-term relationship for me. There would be a lot of waiting. For real life men, I don't seem to be attracted to any men I have met through social events. Yep, I have tried online dating and got tons of likes and matched but i still unsure one men seem to like to rush before metting up and did ask me out twice and i said is was too soon. Should I be more directed to get my way? I wanted to get into a long term relationship and so far I haven't been in one, but I had 9 ex-boyfriends. What can I do to improve my chance of entering into a long term relationship?

[slatyb]

It's never too soon to meet someone. You might get ask opinion from a friend. Are you not meeting men, not merting men that interest you, or getting rejected by the interesting men you meet?

[TheSimFans]

I don't really has friends. i also has tried approached men inrl and did rejected me some of them the other guys just seem to be more interested being friend then long term relationship.

[slatyb]

"I don't really have friends..." Why not? The reason you can't attract a partner could be related to your lack of friends.

[TheSimFans]

NO is not because of lack of friend. just had toxic friendship and then turn me off for only having like one or two friends. i had zero problem with men from college but was some were cheater and some were okay. other men some bit werid.

[strateguy632]

try careful screening, say " no intimacy until marraige. "

that will screen people. and from the hundreds of men in town, you will find a few possibilities.

[TheSimFans]

Married is rubbish ideal for men so i'm just going to stick to long term relationship

[HappyWoman34]

Try this then. Only date people you’d be proud to introduce to loved ones as your partner. If anything feels off, even if you love them, avoid getting involved.

[OfMiceandMen]

Defocus on meeting a guy, have some fun make some new friends. Friends are most likely candidates for new bfs and gfs. There is no get quick fix, it takes time.

[TheSimFans]

nah i don't see friends attracted anyway. these make zero ponit i never once been attracted to any one that has be my friends. yep i know is take long ass times so far.