Why have I lost my game?

[Anonymous]

My phones dry. I’m not texting anyone. I’m not going on any dates. I’m not crushing on anybody AT ALL.

I used to go from one guy to the next. The drama was non-stop.

What has happened to me?

[Cynicaldreamer]

"I used to go from one guy to the next. The drama was non-stop" Did you think that maybe you're maturing and you're subconsciously trying to avoid guys and drama like that? Or so I'd hope that's the case.

If you're on dating apps, change up your profile and/or pictures- freshen them up. In person, try going out to new places, or hobbies to meet new people your age if possible.

Nothing wrong with not having any crushes- I honestly haven't had a crush on a guy in YEARS: no one has impressed me enough to want to crush on them. Keep in mind a crush is just that, a 'crush' or infatuation.

Welcome to getting older! Where you have to put in a bit more effort to impress or attain a relationship! Sucks doesn't it, lol. Moreso if you're unattractive or already didn't have any game to begin with

[Nikki1989]

If you are relying on texting, you have no game.

[Asker]

Well I suppose when you’re crushing on someone you look forward to their texts

[Ali4Sy]

You're just bored of all this shit dating world...

You'll never lost your game you'll be back whenever you are ready..

Actually I'm at the same place.. I'm like that right now, I got very far from this game too, I also used to have a girl or a crush always... But now I don't feel like I'm in...

But I know I'll be back sometime when I find that girl I'll be there and I'll be back to the game more than anyone in it 😌

And I'm pretty sure that you'll be back too... Just never lose the hope😌🌹

[DannyUk2017]

Standards have gone Way up! So that's why most are doomed! You see? When you had before anyone you wanted, u stomped on them like nothing, and now has come the TIME for you to see how it feels to be left in the "open". Don't want to be judgmental but try to appreciate what you have, when you have, and you could get more in return, but if you "mess around" you know the saying..."what goes around, comes around". 😉

[Asker]

I did mess around a lot when I was younger tbh

[DannyUk2017]

You see? So now you really feel the need to "settle" but is no one on site that could be the match/template, as most have been "exhausted" before...🤷‍♂️, now is your turn to Start Searching and Select what fits your criteria.

[SnowedIn]

Something changed.

What big change recently happened in your life? Or, what behavior or look did you change? It'll tie back to one of those things.

[Asker]

I stopped giving my time to people unless their intentions are clear I guess

[SnowedIn]

That's really smart actually.

If you asked me to guess (which you did lol) I believe that caused the downturn in guys around you.
. you didn't lose your game, you changed it/turned it down.

[BlackJeep]

"I used to go from one guy to the next. The drama was non-stop."

Maybe try not flying your red flags in public. Real men don't want to line up to be next and they don't want drama. I think you need to move on to the next town.

[dolemite58]

ur a woman u don’t have game 🤣 u get laid by existing

[Asker]

I don’t want to get laid I want to be taken out to nice dinners, held and cared for

[dolemite58]

isn’t womens game to be taken out to nice dinners by guys they don’t want to have sex with? 🤔

[Asker]

Not always. Not for me anyways.

[Anonymous]

You have to make the decision. It's not rocket science. If you sit on the floor and want to get up... Make the decision to get up and then get up.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Like a game of golf sometimes you just can putt!

[Anonymous]

Yeah, you were with more than 1 guy at 1 time and loved to have options.

[Asker]

When?

[Subflics]

Well "going from one guy to the next" gets around fast

[MementoMori777]

High standards most likely

[Asker]

I don't know if they’re high I think the market is just bad 😂

[MementoMori777]

Whatever you gotta tell yourself bro

[Asker]

😭 bro

[MementoMori777]

Lol.

[exitseven]

Maybe the word got out

[Asker]

Hahaaaa

[Luckycharms12]

People don't like dram

[Luckycharms12]

Drama

[Luckycharms12]

Would be the first hint

[Asker]

I mean good drama haha something to look forward to

[Luckycharms12]

You should like you except guys hit on you. Want one get off your butt and text one or talk to someone

[Asker]

true

[WhitneySnow]

You’re getting older and chilling out?

[Anonymous]

Get a job?

[Asker]

I don’t need a job I need emotional security

[Opinion Owner]

A job can help with that

[shades777]

step 1. wash your butt and brush your teeth