boyfriend and I have been dating 6 wks. We are both 15. I’m his first “real” girlfriend. He is very shy and doesn’t initiate holding hands or hugging. We can talk about everything pretty openly and I told him I want those things. Our parents have met, his friends know about me etc so it’s not that he is trying to hide being with me. When I ask why he didn’t hold my hand he says “I just didn’t think about it”. Shouldn’t he WANT to? He did tell me that he just doesn’t want to do something wrong and that he likes me so much he is just nervous. I’m really not trying to compare but the guy I dated a year ago always hugged me, had his arm around me etc. I don’t want to always initiate everything and I made it very clear that he can’t really mess up and that I’m very into him. I wouldn’t really want a guy trying to get in my pants but we are talking about hugs here… any insight? Can you really like someone so much that you just won’t do anything because you’re that worried? I just don’t get it.
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Oh yes, its possible to be incredibly shy, especially as a teenager (ask me how I know). He may be so enamored of you that he can't believe you are actually interested in him and its also worried that he will screw things up.
Of course there could be other reasons too, but the above is my first guess
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You will have to be super patient with him if you truly think he is worth it.
He’s super shy and nervous. Just be patient with him.
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