I'm 22 and have really bad luck as a person with no girlfriend , mother, or supportive friends?

[Anonymous]

I don't know how to progress in life , have the personality, £, manners etc...

[Meropatrick]

first of all can u make ur luck better? Can you work out. Maybe being in a better shape can help u attract a girl. Dont have any one? Do u have a mentor? Someone that can guide u and give u advice. Why not get a job? It can open doors for u when it comes to money and meeting people. I dont know anything about ur life. If u can elaborate about ur job situation i can advice u better. But going to the gym and getting a job can open doors for u to meet people and better urself

[Asker]

In a training course program for cyber security rn having interviews for roles in 2-3 month time.

[Asker]

No I don't have a dating mentor.

[Meropatrick]

Wait until u finish ur training and work. Usually ur social life change after working. U will have coworkers and people to befriend. When u make friendships then u start going out with them to social events and meet new people and maybe a possible love interest.

[Asker]

Nothing came about in that form from my previous job.

[Asker]

I can't put weight on I'm 12:10 in st for weight and can't gain anything after 4 meals a day.

[Meropatrick]

Give this job a try maybe the outcome will be different this time. Do u use Something like meetup? Its a website where u meet people with similar interest give it a try. I am not sure if it available in ur country. But its famous in the US. About putting on weight any trainer can give u an advice that suits ur condition. There is nothing like u can't out on weight. Maybe ur body is unique and u need certain diet to build it. A trainer can really help u. If u can afford a trainer i really recommend it

[Asker]

I had a trainer before but he was full of himself and spent the majority of his life flirting with women and not being fully engaged in clients.

[inhua]

don't worry about that stuff for now.

the best thing you can do now is build yourself to the point you don't even think about putting food on the table or worry about paying your bills