Guys, what woman would you choose for marriage/serious relationship?

[Anonymous]

I know a lot of men value women that are virgins so I want to see what you would do in this case.

I'm aware usually the cases would be the opposite but I want to see if its more about her character or the body count itself.

She is a virgin who loves going out, clubbing, drinking. She wants to be a business woman and have kids. (She will hire a nanny)

She has 1 bodycount from a serious relationship years ago, she stays home, loves cooking, loves taking care of kids and would love to be a stay at home mom

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+1 y

When the question hits about 24 hours then I'll reveal which one I am:). Interessting so far. I hope more men vote!

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+1 y

I am option B.

Although I already know what man will most likely marry me. He knows my past and we have talked about marriage. He still loves me so its good.

Thank you for voting! Seams like 1/3 of men prefer option A and 2/3 prefer option B so far🙂

[HighValue]

No past of casual sex, no past of using drugs or heavy alcohol drinking, no tattoos, no contact with any ex, no kids from previous relationships, doesn't post provocative/revealing pictures online, no NEW opposite gender friends when in a relationship, and will sign a prenuptial agreement where I get to keep my house, vehicles, savings/investments, and personal possessions. That is the only way I would consider marriage.

[Asker]

Okay but what if these are the only 2 woman who would ever wanna be with you. (Hypothetically speaking). ?

[HighValue]

I'd rather stay single.
But out of those two, the one clubbing and drinking is a deal breaker regardless of her other qualities.

[Asker]

Okay makes sense!:)

I hope you find your virgin wife soon!

[Grond21]

The later, if she has changed her value system. Because that is what is all about. Values.

[Asker]

Yes that makes sense!

[Grond21]

Good! I'm gonna does, because some people just don't understand it.

[Asker]

Yeah many people here hate om the second one and go for the first one...

[Grond21]

*glad it does

That is true, because if a woman decides to stay a virgin, she is more likely to have the right values. But women in your situation can absolutely find happiness and have the right values. There's just more growth and communication that has to happen between you and your partner.

[Grond21]

Would you wait till marriage for your next relationship?

[Asker]

Ofcorse:) i haven't had sex in 3 years and was raped the first time and will wait for marriage so yes

[Grond21]

The rape doesn't count against you. It's horrible, but does not change your values.
I'm glad to hear you will wait even if you find a great guy.
Also, so men are stupid. 😁

[Asker]

Yeah but it was my fault too cause I dated him but the first time he did i screamed no and kicked him but he forced himself in me so I just gave up.. and we dated for a year. I sinned. But I've prayed for forgivness and learned so I can't do more than that now..

[Grond21]

If it was your boyfriend who did it to you then I am guessing it happened repeatedly. Which is even worse, and drastically lowers or erases your culpability. Plus, if he was a rapist them he was probably a manipulator. Which also lowers or erases your culpability

[Asker]

Yeah but it was my fault too. I sinned. But I've grown. Thank you for the support!

[Grond21]

Well, I won't presume to tell you what is on your heart. Just know that your sin does not define you.

[Asker]

Thank you! I think people forget humans make misstakes sometime esspecially with virginity thing but it is what it is.. thank you!:)

[Grond21]

Yes. You have to have high standards with the right amount of mercy/understanding also

[Asker]

Yes! :)

[Berethor]

Always the virgin, if the non-virgin was truly good then why was the man has left her? :)

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Nature_Adores_a_Virgin

[Asker]

Maybe he died, maybe he was a psychopath. (Not a narcissist) pyschopaths can pretend to be the perfect husband/wife for years staright before reveling their true self. And people who abuse people dont need a reason to do it. :)

Can also be other reasons.

[Berethor]

I am not buying it, also her ability to bond to a man got much weaker anyway. :)

[Asker]

You dont buy science?
Uhm okay I mean if I were you I would study psychopaths.. and if her ex dies should she have sex with his corpse or move on to someone else? Actually dont answer that I dont wanna know your answer. I just hope you dont have sex with your dead future wife.. godoluck finding her:)

[Asker]

There are evil men out there you know.. Just like there are evil women but I guess you are biased. Some woman hurt you. I hope you heal:) but I can't have a convo with someone that doesn't believe in science. Wish you the best tho!

Also by your data a woman with 10+ partners is less likely to get a divorce than a woman with 2 biodies..

[Berethor]

I am not buying it case it likely not the reason and don't want used goods anyway. :)

[Asker]

I understand. Hope you believe in science one day!:)

Goodluck finding your alive wife! Wish you the best! And thank you for not answering, that detail

[Berethor]

Thanks, as for my data it clearly shows that a virgin is best, so it don't matter. :)

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Virgin_Power

[Asker]

I doubt in this case the marriage would last more than 1 year cause she loves clubbing but I guess it depends on what you are searching for! But yes usually virgins are best options! And if not virgin 10+ partners are better than 2 partners:)

[Berethor]

So what if she feminist that loves clubbing? she is saves herself despite that. :)

[Asker]

You do you! If thats what you want then go ahead. I hope you find her!:) hopefully she will stay loyal to you even tho she is out partying

[Berethor]

Thanks, I would put my faith in a virgin, there is no better odds than that. :)

[Asker]

:)

How old are you? You aren't religious I know. But how old are you?

[Asker]

By your bio imma guess you are a virgin?

[Berethor]

It says my age here, why you can't see that? and why you care if I virgin? :)

[Asker]

Some people put in the wrong age so thats why I asked. And I can tell by your answer you are. Thats okay:)

[Berethor]

I don't put the wrong age, I am not a liar, are you a virgin, anonymous girl? :)

[Asker]

I will say later. I dont want the results to be biased. :)

[Berethor]

Okay I am waiting, in in the meanwhile if you want you can join my familia. :)

www.kanoplay.com/.../

[Asker]

I'm good but thank you for the offer!

[Berethor]

Owell, I have 2 more places left for now, maybe someone else here would join. :)

[Asker]

Yes im sure someone will!:)

[Berethor]

Yea, and Tzarina Katarin Bokha is one of the coolest Virgin Women ever. :)

warhammerfantasy.fandom.com/wiki/Katarin_Bokha

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HAr7yUlM0Po

[ProbablyClueless]

There isn't a single group of people more aggressive and less mature than virgin career women.

There's just something insufferable about someone with extremely strong opinions but doesn't have the life experience to actually know what they're talking about.

There are a few users on here who I used to have extremely tense interactions with until they finally got laid and grew up a little.

[Asker]

Okay intressting so which one would you choose?:)

[ProbablyClueless]

Sorry, I thought I answered the question but I just realized I never actually said my preference! lol I would take the non-virgin.

[Asker]

Okay cool!:)

[lorenzomichael]

Who cares about being a virgin? I like a woman with some kind of experience. But not a whore. but I really enjoy a woman who's honest, loving, caring, funny, and who's a little dangerous. Looks will always fade away, but the inside is what she's made of. To me that's where my girl is.

[Asker]

Well put! I hope you find her!:)

[lorenzomichael]

No I got mine. Had her for nearly 20 years.

[Asker]

Oh thats so sweet. Congrats!

[lorenzomichael]

I don't know if it's sweet, but It's the truth.

[Asker]

Cool!

[RingOfFire]

"When the question hits about 24 hours then I'll reveal which one I am:). Interessting so far. I hope more men vote!"

I think it's pretty obvious which one you are. 😉

[Asker]

Lol which one do you think I am.. and which one did you vote for?

[RingOfFire]

I voted for the second one (one body count) and I am guessing that is you. 😎

[Asker]

Yes! Good guessing!

[RingOfFire]

You are a rare treasure that any man would be lucky to be with. Not many in your generation have those beautiful and noble values.

[Berethor]

What noble values? she didn't wait until marriage, so what noble values?

[RingOfFire]

Show me a person who has never made a mistake in life or given into temptation in a time of confusion or duress. Forgiveness and mercy are some of God's most important commands. Those who lack it are themselves committing a sin.

[Berethor]

God might forgive, I don't, I want a virgin only, a woman that saved herself.

[RingOfFire]

That's your right. But to try to humiliate someone who made a mistake is cruel and immoral.

[Berethor]

It's a big mistake, and mistakes have consequences, she so she should had waited.

[Asker]

@ringoffire he thinks he is above God and all misstakes. I geniunly appreciate your support but he is not worth pur energy:) he hates women. He even said he doesn't believe men can be abusive so its always the womans fault. Clearly someone hurt him I just hope he heals. Thank you again!❤️

[RingOfFire]

He too needs to learn the lesson of forgiveness. Some people never learn it and others only learn it the hard way when they need forgiveness themselves and there is none to be found.

I wish you happiness in your relationship. You deserve it. 🤗

[Asker]

That's true!

Thank you! God bless you!😊🤗

[Anonymous]

This a no brainer based on what you listed. But what is of concern is what you DIDN'T list. Life is NEVER this cut and dried when it comes to women.

[Asker]

Which one would you choose?:)

[Opinion Owner]

I prefer to keep that as anonymous as your question. Suffice it to say it's obvious if you're a quality guy.

[Asker]

Well did you vote?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes.

[Asker]

Okay then thats all I need. Thank you!

[magiusX26]

none. no one is worthy.

[Asker]

How so?

What type of woman are you looking for?

And if these where the only 2 women left on earth and you the only male left?

[magiusX26]

i gave up on dating. all types are too dishonest (amongst other flaws) to ve worthy. as far as being the last guy on earth and these choices, i will laugh as himans go extinct.

[Asker]

Oh i see.. in what way are they dihonest?:(

[magiusX26]

in my lifetime i can only think of one woman i have ever met and known beyond a superfulous level that has not stepped out of their romantic relationship. that is something like 1 is 97875547655 women.

[Asker]

Damn having your view must hurt you. What woman hurt you this much?:(

[magiusX26]

all of them collectively

[magiusX26]

oh to the guts out there, you are no bettet

[magiusX26]

by the way, its not just my view. its gaving the perspective of looking at what all of society (humans) have become over a very long time (more than multiple lifetimes) . humanity has managed to evolve into the lowest possible species.

[Asker]

Yes but there are quality people out there still

[magiusX26]

possibly, but have to wade through too many of the opposite of quality to make it even mildly worth the time or trouble.

[magiusX26]

am curious as to why you seem so invested in knowing that much about why and me.

[Asker]

Cause I feel bad for you

[magiusX26]

no need to. i have my peace. what would another person be able to add to that and my life? as far as i can tell, nothing. unless you count less peace, more drama, a drain on my monetary, physical, emotionaln and mental resources. a woman would only be able to provide (on the postive side) a body for sexual release, nothing near being enough for the implied costs.

[Asker]

That view in life must hurt you.. I see so many lonely angry men on here its sad:(

[magiusX26]

not lonely nor angry. just realistic, comfortable, and peaceful. realitively happy as well do to the above.

[Asker]

Why do you have that picture in your profile? Why that quote.. are you one of them?

[Anonymous]

Virgins are my fav 😍🔥

[Asker]

Cool!

[Opinion Owner]

I must marry virgin

[Asker]

Hope you find your virgin wife soon!:)

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you ❤️🔥😍
So what is ur type?

[Asker]

I prefer a man with a low bodycount but he doesn't need to be a virgin:)😊

[Opinion Owner]

I think its me 😜😂

[Asker]

Thats really sweet but I kinda know who it is already.. but Im sure your woman is around the corner!:) you seam nice. She will be lucky!