What can men do to get a real girlfriend?

[Unit1]

And not be one of those "men" described here

Go to Thailand?

[artemisiaa]

To be honest, some of the nicest girls out there do have competition for men to be with them. But usually they only see these girls for their outer appearance and only a few will want to be with her in a relationship for her personality too. The best way to get to a girl and not be one of 'those' men who fight for her attention with money, is to be a genuine person. Someone who does small but very thoughtful gestures, gives her compliments not just saying 'you are pretty' but saying things like 'I think you are beautiful and when you smile, you outshine the sun'. This also helps you find nice girls who will treat you right, girls who seem nice and pretty but are really just gold diggers or actually toxic, will often turn you down if you do not overload them with gifts and money and other superficial items. The men talked about in the video, are trying to flatter women who are only talking to them for money because of their appearance. So, to now be one of 'those men', be a genuine person and you can attract genuine women who are not like 'these' women on camsites and OnlyFans.

[Anonymous]

You have to be okay with being rejected. You have to ask women out wether its in real life or online.

[razelove]

Your last sentence is on point. From previous posts that you've had, you're just starting to date seriously, and with the intention of finding someone.

Try outside the US. Southeast Asia, the Phillipines, Central America, Japan, bounce around and see where your values and those the women you're looking for align the most. Maybe it's Eastern Europe, hell, maybe it's much closer like Mexico or something.

I got lucky with the timing of when I met my wife, I was very very close on just giving up on LTR completely.

[Unit1]

Yep. Gotta get that Elite Visa for Thailand and a condominium near a beach city and some money for fun and I'm all set.

[Unit1]

I reckon it's a region, where men are in demand as much as women are in demand in the USA and Europe.

[Anonymous]

Be a real man. And get ready to adjust your lifestyle. Have your shit together or at least planned out like, career path, living situation. Most serious woman look for responsible men that don’t want their man going out every weekend and will quickly leave if you’re have trouble balancing her and your priorities towards the type of man she’s looking for.

[VforVindication]

I honestly don't even think about it anymore. I have given up on women. And at my age, i probably will never be able to get what i want anyways so why even bother. And only stupid men spend money on a woman who is behind a screen.

[Pete671]

Travel to the Philippines,,,