Would it be weird to go out with a woman who's taller than me?

Question

She likes me and I'm attracted to her, I know it's not the typical pairing.

EricSummer · Accepted Answer

If she's genuinely fine with it then go for it.

One word of warning, though: In case she normally prefers guys to be taller than her, but made an exception for you then it can lead to trouble in the long term. She may have regrets and find it more difficult than usual to stay faithful to you.

Look for warning signs like her stressing about high-heel shoes or suggesting for you to make sure your spine is always straight (for health reasons...)

In case of doubt prefer a woman 5'' shorter than you.

Berethor · Accepted Answer

Yea it's weird, it's like she is the man and you the woman, it's looking very weird for sure.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I don’t like big muscular guys cause they could beat you up if they get angry. The last three guys I liked were tall but had low muscle strength. Two looked anorexically skinny and the third guy was healthy looking but had extremely weak arms.

Alli39 · Accepted Answer

Nope. If you're both attracted to each other then it's a perfect pairing. Unless it's going to make you feel super self-conscious then just don't sweat it, I've seen plenty of couples with a "reverse" height difference.

Finchie40 · Answer

I dated a girl that was a little taller
Then me and I was a little self conscious that she wouldn’t be interested on me because of my height, but it didn’t bother her , so if it doesn’t bother you or her then who cares , as long as she treats you good is all that matters

Justmisscurious · Answer

I wouldn’t say it’s weird but it can definitely  feel  weird especially if it’s a dynamic you’re not use to. As a taller woman who has dated a guy a few inches shorter than me, I did sometimes feel a tad awkward. But I got over it and we genuinely loved one another. Unfortunately it didn’t work out for unrelated reasons.

Jersey2 · Answer

I am tall but not super tall. If she were an inch or two taller I would be fine with it as I said I am tall and comfortable with myself so not a bigger :D Heals will add more height but I don’t care. Just be confident and that will shine through for both of you.

When I was younger I wanted short girls though but today would be cool with it. Tall girls have some amazing legs thats would look great in a long dress. I would be taking her to nice places so she could wear such things.

provokeesmokee · Answer

It is a NORMAL pairing.

Only insecure people care about whether height makes or breaks a relationship.

And only heavily damaged people consider online takes on height more than, y'know, the person they're trying to date or spend more time with.

Fireguy17 · Answer

what difference does it make who is taller? I didn't know that there were rules about this. Who decides?

JHNS98 · Answer

I really wouldn't mind finding a girl taller than 5'4", which is so rare in my area. My ex friend with benefits is extremely short compared to me, I'm so tall that even holding hands with her was awkward.

abc3643 · Answer

The only two opinions that matter are yours and hers. Remember this: It is very liberating when you realize more people's "judgment" is irrelevant.

CubsterShura · Answer

Shouldn't be a big deal if you're both attracted to each other and secure about yourselves and each other.

zagor · Answer

No. If she likes you and you her, go for it. How much is the difference?

Reem12345reem · Answer

I wouldn't date a guy shorter than me  it's weird yes but it's not a problem , if ur both okay with it then that's what matters the most

molonski2 · Answer

No --- I really love it when I'm in that situation , its great.

stepyo99 · Answer

Yeah, it's weird, but so what? I've dated women taller than me too, just own it.

Unit1 · Answer

Nah, it's pretty sexy. She can "mommy" you a little bit when you cuddle and rest your head on her boobs. I know I'd love it.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

Tall girls need love too, just don’t make a deal about it.

Wonderingguyy · Answer

It’s only weird if you feel uncomfortable with it, and around her, otherwise it’s not weird at all

LiamJHayden · Answer

Not sure why people overthink things like this. If the two adults are into each other it should not matter.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

It's not common but if you like each other why not.

Nikki1989 · Answer

We are not you, so how would we know?

JCT666 · Answer

You both like each other, and that's all that matters. Who cares what others think.

Lokiion · Answer

I wouldn’t don’t see that often but it’s still normal

Dom_Raechal · Answer

Yes, unless you love to seem like a weak sissy

sweetpeababygirl27 · Answer

it's still a woman tall or not! us humans be in our head too much & even im guilty of it...

robocop666 · Answer

I am 6 foot tall. Women my height and over say 6 foot is minimum in a man.

Yucy_Gluttony · Answer

MUTUAL LIKE SO NO PROBLEM!

Spongebobssocks · Answer

Not at all. Have fun!:)

sheenagwapa · Answer

mope! enjoy your date!

exitseven · Answer

Nope, just don't make a big deal about.

sheikalana · Answer

No. Go for it.

Jazzy54 · Answer

Only if you make it weird.

MikeInHawaii · Answer

Who gives a rats @$$ what’s typical?

Redstang88 · Answer

Never bothered me

Anonymous · Answer

Yes it is, let me be honest.

In_Trance · Answer

Fuck around and find out

ChiTown33 · Answer

Nope.

gothbxtch · Answer

not at all!

jimmy2 · Answer

Don't bother me

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