Girls, would you date?

[Anonymous]

Girls, would you date a guy whom let you know up front that you would never be married, you would only be for his sexual use? He would never fully trust you. He would always be, at least partially, emotionalky detached from you and any children you may create because he knows he will eventually watch you all wither away from old age and he would have to carry on living long past, even the great grandchildren dieing of old age.

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9 mo

He was once a loving normal man but circumstances killed his ability to love. Yet he would require the connection even for a one night stand.

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8 mo

Today's society is creating more and more men like this out of the good men out there.

[Alli39]

Wtf? No. Hook up with a guy for sex? Yes, assuming I have any inclination to but the dude in the description sounds like a bit of an ass anyway, so no thanks. But date someone who's only in it for sex? Of course not. Why would anyone ever do that? The whole point of dating rather than hooking up is the emotional side of things.

Why on earth are you even asking this?

[Asker]

He would not hook up as you put it period.

[Alli39]

I'm confused. He's only there for sex, but won't have sex unless it's in a relationship, but he also refuses to actually participate in the relationship? Because if so, that's all kinds of manipulative and messed up (Yes, I can clarify if you don't understand).

Are we talking about a real person here?

[Asker]

It is a relationship, just not as much emotion from him. It's little more than sex, but not just sex. The key emotions of love and (full) trust will be absent though.

[Alli39]

Again, why would I want a relationship where I'm not loved and trusted if I'm providing those things to him? Of course I would go find someone how can actually give me those things and generally be supportive/reciprocal. I'm serious, what would be the point of that relationship for the woman? If 90% of what she's getting is sex, then frankly she can probably find that elsewhere without having to deal with the stress and commitment of a relationship.

[provokeesmokee]

No, he sounds like a bore and like a coward.

I'm immediately uninterested.

[gothbxtch]

um no. i’m sorry man, this sounds like you should look into therapy

[Asker]

This is where he is post therapy, he was much worse before therapy.