Would you date you?

Question

Would you date you?

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

I would date a female version of myself (if I found them physically attractive and feminine rather the masculine as I consider myself)

It would mean they have the same views, meaning we would never disagree or fight and would have stability in the relationship.

We'd have the same interests so we can have fun doing all the things we like to do or talk about.

We'd have the same sense of humor and be able to laugh at the same things and enjoy experiences together

We'd have the same vision for our future (my dream of living off grid and enjoying van life for a while)

We'd have sexual chemistry (if she's the feminine version of myself, she'd be into the same kind of stuff as me)

It's basically what I want in a girl. A feminine version of myself.

OneViewpoint · Accepted Answer

I have no idea. My ability to see myself as others do is limited. It's not something I ever think about. However, I have no shortage of women trying to date me so, I guess I'm datable.

Genie23 · Answer

Definitely not, lol

AviatorTom · Answer

No, I prefer dating someone with different goals, philosophy and personality from me, not radically different though. Differences encourage more learning and sharing together.

aceleon · Answer

no. i'm pretty much just a pretty face i'm selfish, insanely impatient, bossy, irresponsible, have issues with emotional intimacy, suffer from ocd, jealous/possesive, manipulative, have serious anger issues and apathic towards things when they really don't have to do anything with me.

i'm definitely not a husband material, yes i love kids and probably have high amount of affection to show but in my core i am all about freedom and hate responsibility to my core.

i guess i kind of suffer from peter pan complex (i might be exaggarating it though) i am a hedonist and i only want to live in a way that keeps me happy, i don't want to deal with problems that i have no interest in, i can't be bothered with taxes, bills, 9 month of torture we call pregnancy, waiting to get rid of the other torture i call raising a baby (i love kids yes but i fucking hate babies, i don't find them cute at all either they look like mutated piglets to me) also with my level of obsessiveness i can never raise a girl without finding myself in arkham and if my kids are boys i will have constant anxiety about whether they got in trouble or someone harmed them and i will likely end up killing someone and getting in jail before i see my first born's graduation.

i can't shoulder a family, i can't lead, i am too much of a wild card for it, i am the type of guy you would have fun and passion, i can make you laugh, cause every type of emotion over minutes, have multiple amount of conversations with different topics, i might be the type of face that you imagine during masturbating to novels too perhaps but i can never be the father figure of a family, most i can be is the multiple personality disorder big bro who sometimes a hedonistic showman that acts like the jester the entire party needed and sometimes the grumpy, pessimistic, cold, apathic and easy to anger mr. impatience.

mysteriousNicholas · Answer

@thegreenyogi not 100 percent a female version of me, as I don't think I'm "that good looking" and my body doesn't want to mate with someone "who looks like a Carbon copy of me" that's how you end up with the Habsburg Jaw and other deformities. Lol 😆 and it's just vomit worthy to think 🤕 🤢 🩸

Anyways - I have met some women in my life time who seemed similar to my personality (in a submissive form, I don't want a woman macho) and had nice brown eyes, I don't really want blue eyes like mine in my ideal lover woman) lol 😆

AvaRay · Answer

Damn right, I’d date me — and not just date, I’d fight to keep me.

I’m rare, soft yet sharp, calm yet electric, loyal but never blind..

I don’t chase, I attract n I know exactly what I bring to the table depth, fire, clarity, n class.

Loving me isn’t a game, it’s a privilege cause I don’t just give affection, I awaken purpose..

So yeah, I’d date me twice..

Just to remind myself how real love’s supposed to feel..

Purpleronnie · Answer

While I appreciate my partners charachter / personality being similar in some says to mine I could not cope with an identical match in female form. I need to be challenged and opposed , I need different thinking , ideas and strengths. These differences and more balance me

Levin · Answer

That would be some very odd sex.

I think in some odd way we are attracted to a version of ourself.

But I think I'd need a more extroverted version of myself. Someone kindly, spiritual and slightly better adjusted, haha. Women are better at the social stuff.

Zack-Bann · Answer

I wouldn’t. But not because I don’t find myself attractive.

I just think that partners can’t be so identical that they have the same strengths and weaknesses

Having kindred spirits and shared values is great.

But I would rather date someone who’s strengths could influence my weakness and vise versa so that we can both grow towards a more healthy and mature person

BobbieBoy666 · Answer

You must love yourself before you can date yourself and I love and date myself. I even dance with myself. 💕

Antarr_999 · Answer

Initially I wanted to say no but honestly? Yes why not, I'm not where I am but i'm getting there everyday, self empathy ain't so bad is it? :)

aaron13547 · Answer

Nope I love myself but not that much... I really like the way this question made me think, lol.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Yeah I'd date the male version of me. I need to work on myself but I still care deeply and I'm a good person.

Anonymous · Answer

No I wouldn't, I'm too shy, and two shy people can't make a relationship, because neither will make the first move. Besides, I like dominant girls.

molonski2 · Answer

If I was younger than my now age = sure. Although there is a bit of Tasmania in the thought of that.

Twodogs0525 · Answer

Hell no! For one thing, I'm not into dude's, even though I am gorgeous and another thing, I'm not into masculine women.

bunnyboo24 · Answer

As morals and personality yesssss 100% yes. Looks.. never. it would be like dating my brother🤢

RandomGirl42 · Answer

Oh, yes. I would have a lot of fun with me. 😊

FreyaRed · Answer

No. I can have sex with myself whenever I want. XD

Shiprex · Answer

I think so but there would be reservations but understanding of each other.

Still-alive · Answer

Dating the female version of me would be great lol. we'd have so much in common. kinky af in bed, just overall chill, very empathetic...

Unap0logetic_ · Answer

Yes because I only ask for things that I can offer to a person.

Fireguy17 · Answer

Yeppers.  Turns out I'm a nice person, a solid 5ish, blah blah blah.

Cidknee · Answer

If i was a good looking girl I'd probably shit on me. But if "I" was the girl how "I" am and knew me most, definitely! 😏

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah, but at this point I'd be doing it just for the companionship and cohabitation. Anything else would just be gravy. And I'd get along really well with me since we think so much alike.😂

Alex-Snow · Answer

I would and I bet I would have a good time and maybe more

LiamJHayden · Answer

Probably not. Two hyper extroverts in my experience does not work.

CaptainSmartass · Answer

I mean, I love me and I'm excellent and all that, but I'm not gay. Simples...

dragoblack · Answer

Yeah, but it wouldn't go anywhere past hanging out and having a nice meal

Sebastian100 · Answer

I would. by the way my partner is just like me in almost everything so I think I already have it

Anonymous · Answer

No, but I'd have wild and abandoned sex with me. LOL

Likes2drive · Answer

Someone with a similar personality to mine and a female version of me that’s a female version of me that’s attractive. I guess I would

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Absolutely not... I have to remind myself of that whenever I get sad from being alone

WonderingManII · Answer

I don't know, nobody has cared about me. Why would I wonder about dating myself?

Anonymous · Answer

Hideous, fat, short, broke, balding, dying, cigar smoking, binge drinking workoholic What do you think?

Guanfei · Answer

No. Which is why I don't blame the ladies for not wanting me.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Nah, that would be too much.

Miristheiss · Answer

I would sweep myself off my feet!!!

exitseven · Answer

Nah, i am too boring.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Nah I think I have a lot of self improvement to do

Anonymous · Answer

Id date me so hard.

Massageman · Answer

Sure. We could compare spreadsheets!

JSmuve · Answer

I mean, I'm not gay. But I'd go gay for me.

Seangreen · Answer

I don't know I already know too much

Richardjd · Answer

Hell no I can barely stand myself

Gaylordslav · Answer

Absolutely not im disgusting

guesswhereivebeen · Answer

If I could grow a pussy then yeah

lilBigPotato · Answer

Nope lol

qwerty2469 · Answer

I have an identical twin brother. No. Thats gay.

robocop666 · Answer

Yeah as I look good.

BadApple69 · Answer

No! I’m not gay!

eagle1951 · Answer

heck nooooo lol

Paige90 · Answer

Definitely!!

DrPepper12 · Answer

I'd be a helluva but brief ride. No fuckin way.

Agape93 · Answer

Absolutely

Nik1hil · Answer

Would you?

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Yes! We'd be successful and alone together!

loveyouoak · Answer

I'm not lesbian.

oswaldcobblepot · Answer

Probably not

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Yes 😄

Anonymous · Answer

No i would never date me. I am a psycho

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