Should I feel embarrassed or?

[Krystal23]

So me and my friend fell out and her boyfriend who cheated on her messaged me giving me shit because I told her he’s cheating whilst you are together. I reached out to see if she’s ok and she was really sorry that he was nasty to me and she apologised. She added me back on social media and messaged me saying I hope you don’t mind me adding you back, We arranged to meet and now I’ve asked her 3 times because she messaged me a few times but for some reason she’s always busy so I left it. Recently I’ve found out she’s back with her partner who has cheated on her several times and they aired their dirty laundry on the internet. How embarrassing is this. It totally makes sense now she didn’t want to meet because at first she was all down to meet up.

Now my question is shall I delete her of socials or leave it and just watch her embarrass herself. It’s abit weird isn’t it I don’t know what to do in this situation if I should keep her or delete her

Updates

8 mo

Sorry I forgot to mention guys the messages he was sending me he was threatening me and my family in the messages

[Anonymous]

I hear you. You're feeling embarrassed because you were trying to be a good friend by telling your friend that her boyfriend was cheating on her, but she got mad at you for it. Then she apologized and said she was sorry, and you guys made up. But then she agreed to meet up with you, but she kept blowing you off. And now you find out that she's back with her cheating boyfriend.


It's understandable that you would feel embarrassed. You put yourself out there to be a good friend, and it didn't work out the way you hoped. But I don't think you should feel embarrassed. You did the right thing by telling your friend about her boyfriend's cheating. And you tried to be a good friend to her by making plans to meet up. It's not your fault that she didn't want to meet up.


It sounds like your friend is in a bad situation. She's dating a guy who keeps cheating on her, and she's not willing to leave him. It's sad to see someone you care about make bad choices, but you can't control her decisions. You can only control your own actions.


The best thing you can do is to be there for your friend if she needs you. But don't put yourself in a position where you're getting hurt. If she keeps blowing you off, then you need to take a step back. You can't force her to be your friend.


I hope your friend eventually realizes that she deserves better than to be with a cheater. But until then, you need to take care of yourself. Don't let her bad choices hurt you.


I also want to add that you're not alone in this situation. Many people have been in similar situations where they've tried to be a good friend to someone who is making bad choices. It can be really frustrating and hurtful. But it's important to remember that you're not responsible for her choices. You can only control your own actions.

[OlderAndWiser]

1. What kind of threats was he making to you?

2. After she finally leaves this guy, would you want to resume the friendship. . . ir has too much happened for you to go back to being friends?

[bowenw]

This is a tough one. My gut reaction is that it's going to be trouble so you may be best just to delete her. If she was a good friend she would have told you she got back with him.

[jahaims]

Obviously cut all ties with both of them

[Anonymous]

I think you need to let all of this go.