Is it ok it hurts me to think he's been with other girls? or am I too insecure?

[kareenakapur]

He talks about his exes a lot and compares me to them. telling me how much better I am bc his ex did this and I do this etc or that I had a similar belief as this one. He's fucked 30 girls had 10 girlfriend's. I am a virgin, 2 bfs.

He's fucked 3 virgin girls. He says I am so special, but I just hate to think he's done this before. He's told other girls he loved them. But I ask if he regrets and he's like no we both had our experiences but that was before we met.

He likes knowing stuff I did with my ex he thinks its sexy. But I dont want to know. I need to tell him. I told him its fine talk about ur ex if ur trynna explain something. but he just brings up exes too much and it hurts me. is that normal or am I just insecure?

[Olivier-628]

That's why high body count isn't a good thing. I really wish I could help you say you're just unreasonable, but that's not the case. you can talk about how you don't like this but that's all the advice I can give you.

[Olivier-628]

If none of these old relationships of him weren't long, I'd consider that a absolute red flag

[kareenakapur]

noo lot of them were hella long. he told other girls he loved them I don't know how many. I only told one guy my ex of 7 years. My man he was married at one point. He keeps saying girl im going to marry you. But like he's been with so many girls so much longer. just keep thinking he's said this before to prob manyyy girls :(. clearly he was married so he told his ex wife that too lol. doesn't mean he doesn't mean what he saying. I just dont like hearing about other girls in his life but dont want to tell him and he's hiding stuff then.

[ProbablyClueless]

The issue doesn't really seem to be that he has been with other girls, in this case; it's that he's forcing that in your face and making you feel like you aren't good enough.

[kareenakapur]

yess not even not good enough. he's telling me that im better than this ex but like why tf did I remind you of an ex. stop thinking about this ex and that ex

[ProbablyClueless]

He's just being foul.

[jahaims]

Those feelings are coming from your morals and values. You will probably continue to feel those things until you find someone more similar to you.

[Longshank]

Tell him what you did with your exes make it fun and sexy, tell him they had amazing bodies and penises see if he likes it

[Anonymous]

You think you're hurt now, wait till he gets to girl 32. 😆😆😆

[Andres77]

Is this the dutch guy?

[kareenakapur]

dutch?

[Andres77]

Sorry. I’ve been drinking

[Anonymous]

Stop being insecure.