Give me some advice?

[Anonymous]

so I’m 23 and I’ve never had a boyfriend before, im very introverted and i dont like spending time on social events, and i graduated so I don’t interact with people that much.
and all i have are girl friends and when i go out with them they all have boyfriends or someone they’re talking to, and I’ve never experienced this before. I started to feel so lonely. And all of my friends say your time will come or it will happen when you least expected it. But i don’t really believe that shit. I’m really lonely and I don’t know what to do.

[Mehrsia]

Hi love, sorry to hear that. I also faced this situation all my life, but the difference is that I am very sociable and extravert but still single and I am 45 now.
I think you need to work on yourself to be more outgoing. Join jeam, join sports club or any activity that you are interested in. In this way you increase your chance of meeting new people and probably match with one of them. I do not belive this statement that your time will come and it happens when the least you expected it.

[Asker]

I don’t believe this statement either.
I’m sorry you’re facing the same situation, and thanks for the advice

[ivyowl]

Well, count your blessings By the time I was 23 I had so much dating experience I was well on my way to becoming a spinster cat lady... a happy one.

[fred_durst]

since u have many female friends , why dont u try date one of em

u know , most girls are bi , they just didn't realized it until they decided to experiment with other girls

also , same sex dating is actually easier because women would naturally understand each other much better

[Asker]

Thank you for the advice
But I already tried and I figured I’m not bi. I’m straight all the way lol

[DerekC321]

I know it can be hard. Have you tried striking up a conversation with a guy when you're out with your friends, maybe? It doesn't happen that quickly for many people so it's important not to get discouraged.

[Asker]

I’ve never, I don’t want to be dramatic but i think I’ve never had a conversation with a guy alone.

[DerekC321]

I had similar experiences for a long time. I know how hard it can be. But you can have a one on one conversation with a guy when you're with a group of people. It's as good as having a conversation with a guy alone. Anyhow, I can relate. Feel free to follow/DM me if you want to chat.

[gorydetails]

Stop being so introverted. You have to put yourself out there to get a relationship.

[CuriousMufuxka]

I don't really believe your shit. You don't need any advice, just get over yourself!

[Anonymous]

Shocking case for a woman

[Asker]

Why?

[Opinion Owner]

A lot of people think dating is easier for women because guys have to make the first move and ask the girl out

[Asker]

Oh that’s right, maybe that’s why I’m single.
I’m waiting for someone to make the first move.
But I’m wondering why I’m still waiting tho lol

[Jmmmfi4]

You sound like me

[Anonymous]

Go on bumble or something.

[Anonymous]

Wanna chat?

[karekaaaa]

Where are you from?