I went out with a group of friends yesterday. It was me and my friend a a group of 5 boys. My crush is in this group. So after we leave this place we go to a fast food restaurant through the drive through and everyone is in the car and they were talking about a video. Interview they did at the place where we were at. You know those interview where they ask Radom girls to choose a guy to give a kiss on the cheek. Yeah that was it he gave me his phone and showed me the video. Then I said hahah your gonna have to wash your face with Clorox now 😊 and then he said it’s not that deep. He doesn’t like me right? Why would you show me the video? I never told him I like him I can’t tell him. so he can take a hint , I put my middle finger up pointed it to the phone to the girls that gave him a kiss on the cheek. Let me know you can be blunt I’m just tired of having crush’s and liking people
Help me some advice?
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Guys are terrible at reading body language and catching hints. If you like this guy, you're gonna have to be more up front or he won't catch on.
I posted on my story my and his initials. He never texts me first I text first like nit all the time once and a while to ask a question. He answers it but never takes action to talk to me first. I followed him first I’m trying to protect myself as well rejection hurts
What you described would lead me to believe that you like him more than he likes you. If a guy is interested in you, he would do more to pursue you, to talk to you and hang with you. Now it's possible that he could be harboring some feelings for you and keeping it to himself but if that were the case, you would probably see signs from him like staring, standing close to you and wanting to be around you more. I think you have the right idea, keep your feelings to yourself for now and don't put them out there unless you see some obvious signs from him.
That’s the thing. I do see sings maybe I’m just crazy but he stares at em every time he sees me he smiles. We haven’t hung out in some time the the last times we hung out one day he even offered to hold my hand at the movie theaters during a scary movie. When the day came he didn’t do it so I initiated it. I don't know maybe it’s just me the vibe I get is that he is comfy with me maybe not who knows
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Yeah, he either has you in the friend zone or he has put you on the back burner. When a guys does that, it means that there is some interest on his part, but not enough to pursue a relationship at the moment. He may be busy with school or work or he is has someone else he might be interested in that he focuses on.
Yeah that kinda what I thought. I’m 3 years older than him too so why would he even want to pursue a relationship with me. Thank you so much for your time. Any advice to moving on?
You're welcome, glad to help. Going forward, I would say if you continue to be around him, you will have to control your feelings which can be difficult but if you can manage it, then enjoy his friendship. If you think it would be difficult, then I would consider staying away from him for a while and maybe the feelings will pass. The other option would be to try and get him to admit how he really feels about you by having a talk with him but you would have to be prepared going in that he could say something you may not like.
Maybe you wasn't blunt enough with the one you have crushes on to the point where other girls know you have this heart on him.
Maybe how do I get over someone rejection sucks I don’t even have energy to get out of bed. I use to post stories to get his attention but I this point I quit
You in beb? Learn to stay out of bed instead of someone keeping down
Don't assume anything and make an effort to get to know him.
I already did a lot. He never texts me first I followed him first I’m nice to him I try to talk.
So he's not really making an effort then, is he?
No he’s not. Expect watching all my stories but that’s pretty much it. I was thinking maybe he likes me but is shy but I don't know what to think anymore
Then the hell with him and move on to other guys who want to give you attention.