Are there lovable and unlovable people?

[Anonymous]

Do you believe that there are people who don't have in them the "thing" that makes them lovable?

Yes

No

[Grovermint]

Yes, it is possible. At least romantically, I'm one of them. I have friends, acquaintances,, and family, but no one has ever decided that I'm good enough for them, at least IRL.

Online, there was one person, but you never truly know who they are, only what they present. At the time, I was untrusting. Now, I think I blew it, but, this is merely hindsight and there's no real way to know what could have actually happened.

In that scenario, maybe we would have only had a few days in that situation and she would have thought it was a mistake. Feelings are fickle, especially in something like that.

[JackCarter]

Yes.. but doesn't mean they are good/bad people